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Your Questions About Sex Pistols

Joseph asks…

What are some really good punk bands?

I already like the Ramones and the Sex Pistols but I want to hear some deeper, less well known bands.

adultdatingexpert answers:

@Ryan D, political lyrics have nothing to do with punk rock

i’d say 90s Green Day and early Blink 182?
Old AFI?

Thomas asks…

Anyone care to give me a bunch of good punk bands?

I’ve gotten really into punk music. I discovered The Sex Pistols and The Ramones sort of recently.
To be honest I’m not so good at finding music that I like! So if you could, can you guys list as many punk bands as possible? I prefer old school punk but anything works. Thanks!

adultdatingexpert answers:

Try some of these, there all old school.

Discharge –


Dr.Know –

Rudimentary peni –

Warfare –

Anti-nowhere league –

Broken bones –

Zero Boys –

G.B.H. –

Paul asks…

What punk rock/metal bands do you know that share similarities with the band The Ramones?

I realised that i don’t like that much punk, because of various causes..Just some early punk rock bands like the ramones, sex pistols, gg allin.So do you know any other bands that play kinda like ramones, maybe with metal influences too?

adultdatingexpert answers:

The first album by Tank (Filth Hounds of Hades) is kind of right in the middle of punk like the Ramones but by a Metal band.
The Singer/Bass player Algy Ward played for The Damned & also, The Saints before forming Tank

Daniel asks…

What are your top 10 most important rock bands in history?

Mine are in random order:

Pink Floyd
Black Sabbath
The Doors
New York Dolls
Guns N’ Roses
The Clash
Sex Pistols
Kennedy, I know The Beatles inspired most of these bands but the question was what are YOUR top 10 most important rock bands in history. The Beatles are simply not in my top ten.
Thank you David V, you know what your talking about.

adultdatingexpert answers:

No particular order

the beatles
the rolling stones
led zeppelin
black sabbath
the doors
pink floyd
the clash

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Your Questions About Sexy And I Know It

Donald asks…

Where can i find a dress with a sexy back for attending a sweet sixteen?

Something with a REALLY SEXY BACK but affordable, around 80 dollars! I will be attending my best friends sweet sixteen on a yacht!

adultdatingexpert answers:

If you are only 16 you don’t need something REALLY SEXY.

Daniel asks…

What is the difference between cute pretty and sexy-beautiful?

What is the difference between cute pretty and sexy-beautiful? and which one would guys like the mosT?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Cute is applicable to a young girl maybe with a “youthful cheerleader, perky” attitude. Maryann on Gilligan’s Islands was cute.
Pretty is confident a senses of oneself. Pretty can go w/o makeup and still be well-pretty.
Sexy is something you “put on” either mentally or physically. You can put on sexy heels, or lingerie or purr seductively if that’s what u define as sexy. It can be a golden tan accented with sparkling body lotion.
Beautiful is that quiet confidence that says I love me. Beautiful glows from the inside and says I m okay in my skin.
While physical attributes enhance beauty, confidence,maturity and spirit define beauty.

Donna asks…

Is Naveen Andrews not the sexiest man ever to crash land on a mysterious island?

Sexiest castaway on Lost, am I right?

adultdatingexpert answers:

He is sexy but I am partial to Dominic Monaghan myself :) even though he is not on there anymore!
I think there is a guy for girl on that show

answer mine?

John asks…

What’s the difference between sexy and hot vs. pretty and beautiful?

whose a celebrity that’s example of being sexy and hot and one thats an example of being pretty and beautiful cause idk the difference and which ones a better compliment?

adultdatingexpert answers:

My goodness do you imagine someone trying to keep up with all those *words* ?
Personally i think sexy &hot is when
1—you are not really pretty or beautiful but put lots of makeup and dress like a freaking skank by showing a lot of skin and behaving in a flirty way guys and some girls will call that sexy
2–or you are indeed beautiful but spend too much time picking up the right clothes and the right this &that and dress like a skank as well but this time shes overdoing it to call people’s attention
pretty and beautiful is about being more laid back and relying on your natural unique beauty which means you dont go around looking like a trashy girl but know how to make herself shine

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Your Questions About Sexting

Daniel asks…

What is considered sexting?

I sent my boyfriend a snapchat of my “abs” I’m working on. I didn’t realize a bit of my bra was in the corner of the picture (I had shorts on and it was the bottom part of the bra.) he screen shotted it and I’m very worried its considered sexting. What should I do?

adultdatingexpert answers:

It’s not sexting. Sexting is a combination of the words sex and texting, because it is sex related things written in texts. Text is just words, so pictures of any kind are not considered “sexting”, but there’s nothing wrong with the picture you sent.

Susan asks…

What is sexting??????????????

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sexting is sending sexual messages or pictures of yourself(or other people) showing lots of skin (naked or partially nude).

Chris asks…

What is sexting exactly? is it illegal?

Im 17 and my mom said i cant “sext” till im 18, my dad said i cant period cuz its against the law. They talked to me and my sis at the same time. Which of them are right and what even is it exactly? Is it bad pics or just talking bad?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sexting is texting sexual thoughts to a person. This can also include pictures that are sexual in nature. Sexting itself is NOT illegal. Sexting when teens do it can often be illegal. Especially when pictures are involved. So, I suggest you not sext until you are of adult age to be on the safe side. I stand on your Mom’s side on this issue. Your Dad is just being an overprotective Dad and is giving you wishful but incorrect information to try to get you behave a certain way.

Mark asks…

Sexting question…ages..illegal/legal?

is it illegal if someone over 18 sends someone under 18 a picture of themselves in just boxers and you send it to other people?
*** the person who would be sending the picture to others was the one who received the picture when they were a minor from someone significantly over 18
(but when you send the picture you are over 18)?
- Its not nude, I’ve seen facebook/myspace pics similar to this picture.
- serious answers only, thanks
Located in new york

adultdatingexpert answers:

Well the pic of the adult in boxers isnt illegal.
But the minor spreading the picture around could be illegal.

Even though the law puts minors who picture sext in prison & there’s lots of puritans out there saying sexting is despicable, it’s not. Picture sexting is no different than having sex & it’s no different than seeing each other naked at a nudist resort. It’s the people supporting the underage picture sexting laws that are a threat to humanity. There is nothing wrong with underage picture sexting.

Here is how the child porn laws should be: If a minor & someone within 4 years of age exchange nude pictures of themselves & keep them between each other then no crime has been committed. If someone sends those nude pictures of that minor to a bunch of other people then there’s the crime.

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Your Questions About Sex And The City Quotes

Sandy asks…

How could Thomas Jefferson keep slaves when he said this quote?

“I prefer dangerous freedom to peaceful slavery”

Yes I know, it was a different time and mindset and we can’t judge them by our modern standards, but still, he must have known Black people were people….. and therefore deserved the same Rights as all people. How could he have dealt with what one would suppose must have been cognitive dissonance?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Athena is right. Its practical politics and living in the real world. How can we espouse religious freedom and forbid polygamy to the Mormons? We forbid slavery but permit sex slavery in the USA.
Its not that hard to find. Go to Craigslist or Backpage and check under massage etc and see how many ‘Asian massage’ etc turns up in your home town. Any bets on if those girls are slaves? The question becomes, what do you want to do about it in your own personal life? I don’t mean just not patronizing them, but setting them free.

If someone in my city were selling people on the auction block, I’d have no trouble getting together a group (mob) to go lynch him, burn his property and set the people free. But, free the sex slaves around here? The cops know and therefore must be in on it. The people around know, but I couldn’t get a mob together, and if we did, we’d tangle not only with the cops, but whatever criminal organization brought them here. Long odds and a bitterly hard and dangerous fight.

Even if I won, what then for the girls? They’d just be deported to conditions even worse than they endure here. In short, its not a simple problem. I’m open to suggestions.

?Underground railroad?

Michael asks…

When is Sims 3 coming out and what is the dif between Sims 3 and sims 2?

I just want to know because I’ve been a sims fan for a while, and I heard about sims three and I kind of womdering about it. I heard it wasnt scheduled till 2011, but then i heard february 2009.

adultdatingexpert answers:

It is comming out in 2009

and here is what u can do in it that u cannot in the sims 2


Motive bars will be replaced by a new system of discreet moods. For example if a sim is hungry the player will select “Feed Him”.

There will be no multiplayer or online play feature. Rod Humble has stated that this is because simming is a very “personal” experience.

All Sims in the neighbourhood will age at the same time.

Cars and gardening will be possible from the base game.

There will be dawn and dusk skies.

There will be expansion packs which could eventually form to create an entire “Sim Country” quoted by Rod Humble”.

Bubbles show in the control panel though and not hover over the Sims’ head.

Spore (Will Wrights currrent project) and The Sims 3 will be compatible to give players exclusive features. For example if a Spore player produces a creature they like, a screenshot of the creature can be taken and added to a Sim’s t-shirt in The Sims 3. The compatability of the two games has been compared to that of The Sims 2 and Sims City 4 where neighbourhoods could me molded in Sim City and used in The Sims 2.


There is now a universal neigbourhood which Sims can walk/drive through easily without loading times.

Sims will now do long term planning.

Only one neighbourhood will ship with The Sims 3, Pleasantville and it can hold 96 lots.

Leaves can be seen blowing through the neighbourhood.

Sims can enjoy a sunset.

Sims will have to watch out for moving cars when crossing roads

Sims can visit the following confirmed community lots: Bakery, Bookstore, Disco, Clothes Store, Grocery Store and many more are to be expected


In Create-A-Sim you can choose “traits” for your sims to be more individual and unique.

Sims can be different weights and (posssibly) different heights.

A Sim can spy on his/her neighbours.

If a male sim “Woohoos” with his wife he can be in a good happy mood for up to a week afterwards.

If his wife becomes pregnant and she loves kids it will have the same type of effect on her.

If a sim wants to portray his/her view on the town and paints the town through his/her eyes it will look totally different from the way another sim views the town showing that all sims really are unique.

Careers & Work

You can follow your Sim in his/her car to work. You won’t see your Sim working though; he/she will disapear in the building. Also known s a rabbit hole.

Advancing in career is changed as it depends on skills, personality, relationship with colleagues/boss and even certain goals that has to be fulfilled. For example taking work home.

2 Confirmed careers are Cooking and Science.

Sims can take part-time jobs.

Features from The Sims 2

Sims still talk in Simlish

Sims can still pee their pants, die of hunger, etc.

Confirmed ages: Baby, Children, Adult, Elder.

There are still thought bubbles that tell which needs must be fulfilled like Hunger.

Sims still have an inventory system to put things in like groceries.

There will be expansions (duh).

There are still same-sex couples and they can still adopt children.

You can still design, build, and furnish a home.

Build/Buy Mode

Curved pavements.

The ability to place objects on an angle without using cheats.

There is a new tool to redesign (recolour) various objects and furniture in the game adding a whole new depth for builders.

For advanced builders a new more advanced software for modding the game will be included.


Create-A-Sim mode has been “drastically” improved”.

Shoes can be chosen seperatly appart from the rest of the clothing. Something which the community has yet to see.

There 2 are new sliders: One to make your sims go from skeleton thin to morbidly obese and another for how muscely you want your sim allowing all sims to look very diffferent if the player chooses.


This is a list of all the confirmed traits that will appear in The Sims 3 so far. The traits are a new system which will make Sims more unique, each Sim will have a selection of 5 traits which will define how the react and communicate with Sims around them.

All in all there will be 80 traits. Each Trait will have a specific manner in the way a Sim might act in a certain situation, for example a Loner Sims will not want to get married while a Nosy Sims will be poking around in another Sims business all the time.

Adverserial Artistic Athletic Brave Charismatic
Childish Clumsy Commitment Issues Conversationalist Creative
Cursed Daredevil Dreamer Easily Bored EVIL
Excitable Family-Oriented Flirty Fortunate Friendly
Frugal Genius Gloomy Good Sense of Humor Good
Green Thumbs Gourmet Grumpy Handy Hot-Headed
Hydrophobic Idealistic
Inappropriate Insensitive Kleptomaniac
Light Sleeper Loner Lucky Mooch Natural Cook
Neat Nice Nosy Outdoorsperson Over-Emotional
Paranoid Partier Per

Sandra asks…

I am planning on moving to Dallas or a surrounding area. Any advice on places to live?

I need a nice, affordable, safe apartment. Roommates are an option.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Well right now it would be best to live in the suburbs, but you will need a car if you move into the suburbs of fort worth. Because the pub transpo doesn’t go into those areas. However you can catch the train to dallas and most of the suburbs of dallas have pub transpo.

Cheap and safe in fort worth and surrounding areas ( 30 mins from dallas)
Mansfield extremley cheap town homes two bed rooms are 600 and you have a backyard they are nice in a quiet area. The apartments are expensive though 650 for as one bedroom but it’s spacious and luxurios with many amenities.

DON”T move to Arlington if you are going to live in an apartment it’s a nice city to party in but it’s dangeorous unless you stay on campus UTA but still two people get killed on campus a year and countless other abducted and stabbed and robbed.
Euless and grapevine are nice areas with cheap apartments. One bedrooms in euless range from 440- 520. Euless is really quite.
Centreport area. Five minutes from DFW airport quiet but the noise of planes, but I grew up there and it really doesn’t bother you. One bedrooms in centre port range from 470- 650. In grapevine one bedrooms range from 550-700. But they are very luxiourous and spacious as well. Grapevine is a very rich area.

Dallas and surrounding areas
Dallas is wayyyy more expensive than tarrant county and surrounding areas.
Irving near DFW area port in the center of dallas and fortworth It’s a good central location. If you live in an apartment stay on the north side of Irving. Unless you live on the southside of valley view road 10 mins from centre port. In irving the prices vary the lowest being 380 ( I wouldn’t recommend living there though, it’s not unsafe but you can have better quality for a little more) to 1500 for a one bedroom. Irving is where the Cowboys ( football team NFL) practice and live so the closer you get to them the more expensive but the again it’s very luxourious you get your money’s worth. The area near the football camp is called las colinas and valley ranch it is still actually Irving though, It is the North side of Irving.
it’s okay in grandpraire. The one bedrooms start at 550-700. Be careful in this area there are lots of sex offender in Grandpraire for some reason, but still the crime rate isn’t that bad, only if you move into the worng apartments. So if they don’t have a gate and the rent is cheap just say no!

Mesquite/Addison/Plano/ North Dallas/ Uptown/ Frisco
This are good areas near dallas ans in dallas. But they are expensive and the apartments are small in comparison to the other places I’ve listed. Unless you want to overpay for hosing let these places be the last place you go unless you have to be in a very metropolitan urban chic area. Then this would be the only places I recommend for you.
Uptown is nice very urban life. Near downtown, convience , one bedrooms can go from 1000- …. Because some of them are condos and penthouses so the price range can reach triple digits. You may be able to get a one bedroom for 800. Dallas and surronding areas are notorious for slashing rent prices dramatically but then rising them after you lease is up. But the special are monthly so its a right place right time thing.. In the spring and winter the prices of apartments fall in this area so although I quoted prices you may get lower prices if they have a special you can only get those prices if you come in though.
Forgot Cedar Hill nice area developing most apartments are new ( built with in the last five years) metropolitan-suburban area safe. Not far from downtown.

Maria asks…

Why are the republicans so concerned over Bill Ayers, who Obama knew when he was an 8 year old child?

Why are they on here spreading lies trying to make it seem as if though Obama knew him recently? He lived in the same neighborhood as Ayers when he was 8 years old, so, and, tell me somebody who didn’t have at least one nut job in their neighborhood when they were 8? What’s the point?
Oh yeah, and if you are going to try to contradict my truthful statement, please provide a link to your false accusations.

adultdatingexpert answers:

My compliments on your not getting a single rebuttal in all this time. Not bad.

While the dittoheads are regrouping, let me just provide some backup:

This gullibility test from the Ailes camp has been put in perspective and debunked enough here at Y!A that nobody has an excuse for reposting it. Nevertheless, let’s put this desperate, kitchen-sink attack that’s become Palin’s latest scripted rant in some perspective — yet again.

Bill Ayers and Barack Obama at one time lived in the same neighborhood in the city of Chicago, and both had worked on education reform in the state of Illinois. The two met “at a luncheon meeting about school reform in a Chicago skyscraper.” Obama was then named to the Chicago Annenberg Project board to oversee the distribution of grants in Chicago. Later in 1995, Ayers hosted “a coffee” for “Mr. Obama’s first run for office.” The two served together on a community anti-poverty group, the Woods Fund of Chicago, between 2000 and 2002, during which time the board met twelve times. Ayers also contributed $200 to Obama’s re-election fund to the Illinois State Senate in April 2001.” Since 2002, there has been little linking Obama and Ayers. Obama says he has not visited Ayers during the presidential campaign. The senator said in September 2008 that he hadn’t “seen him in a year-and-a-half.” In February 2008, Obama spokesman Bill Burton released a statement from the senator about the relationship between the two: “Senator Obama strongly condemns the violent actions of the Weathermen group, as he does all acts of violence. But he was an eight-year-old child when Ayers and the Weathermen were active, and any attempt to connect Obama with events of almost forty years ago is ridiculous.” CNN’s review of project records found nothing to suggest anything inappropriate in the volunteer projects in which the two men were involved. Internal reviews by The New York Times, The Washington Post, Time magazine, The Chicago Sun-Times, The New Yorker and The New Republic “have said that their reporting doesn’t support the idea that Obama and Ayers had a close relationship.

NPR has the truth about Ayers and Chicago, here:

The story quotes various civic leaders, Republican as well as Democratic, who note that Ayers was accepted as an education expert in Chicago and that NO ONE made a big deal out of his past. The board he and Obama served on was formed by a grant, which AYERS won, from the Annenberg Foundation–yes, the Republican Annenberg, and there were Republicans as well as Democrats on the board.

Odd that everyone jumps on Obama for his strictly coincidental interaction with Ayers, but no one seems to have a problem with Ayers teaching impressionable young minds for decades at a major university.

Obama has denounced the actions of Ayers. The context of his appearance at Ayers’s home was that a mentor brought him to a fundraiser to provide information about his political beliefs and agenda in Chicago politics. It does not imply anything about his thinking regarding the couple who owned the house. He was asked to speak to a group of influential local citizens and he did.

Let’s look at some of McCain’s associations, that are much closer than between Obama and Ayers:

Bob Allen: a Florida state representative who was busted last July for soliciting sex in a public bathroom (McCain campaign staffer)

Rep. Rick Renzi, R-Ariz.: indicted on fraud, conspiracy and money laundering charges (McCain campaign staffer)

G. Gordan Liddy: Convicted felon (from Iran-Contra) who admits planning the assassination of a journalist and described the best ways to kill federal agents (head shots since they wear Kevlar); held fund raisers for McCain; McCain has stated “I’m proud of you” when speaking of Liddy

Charles Keating: Convicted of fraud and racketeering (business partner to McCain’s wife and major donor/ fundraiser/gift giver, which made McCain one of the infamous Keating Five)

Raffaello Follieri: conspiracy to commit wire fraud; eight counts of wire fraud and five counts of money laundering; McCain spent his own 70th birthday on Follieri’s yacht

Cindy McCain: investigated for theft of drugs from her medical charity; her father was a convisted felon, violating liquor licensing laws (immediate family members)

And then of course there’s the association with Pastor Hagee, Palin’s addressing the Alaskan Independence Party (… , Palin being cleansed of witchcraft by her pastor, etc..

The trouble is, GOP voters don’t care about associations GOP candidates make. Neither does the media. It’s really amazing. What gives? Why does the allegedly liberal media give GOP associations a pass while coincidental associations by Dems?

McCain still doesn’t want this smear aired out in a public debate that centrists would see. It wouldn’t help him to have the counterarguments

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Your Questions About Sexuality

Donald asks…

Is sexuality set in stone?

A while back I posted a quiz about sexuality asking: 1. What’s your sexuality? 2. Do you believe love sees no gender? 3. What would you do if you were in love with someone who later you came out as transgender and then had surgery to become the opposite gender of your liking?
And interestingly enough those who claimed to be 100% gay also said they would likely stay with their partner despite them being the sex they were not attracted to. So I guess I’m asking what’s the meaning of this? Are most humans to some extent pansexual? Why wouldn’t the individual who said he was 100% gay(male) but still be with his transgender partner be open to being with any other woman?
(no straight people responded to the quiz so I have no info about their take on this)
It wasn’t just one male is was three or four that said they would stay with their partners. Most of the individuals who answered were bisexual but I essentially had no use for their results

adultdatingexpert answers:

Love and sexual attraction are different things. If they’re 100% gay (which I doubt), and their partner had a sex change, then I would say they would probably still love their partner even if they’re not sexually attracted to them. This may be enough to keep the relationship going, and allow them to be together regardless of their physical genders. Whether or not their relationship is a sexual one, I don’t know. But probably not. Sexuality is not something you can really change, and people that claim to have done so are just kidding themselves.

However, I do believe that sexuality is not as restricting as many people think it is. We’re not robots. We don’t have a sexuality spectrum of ’100% Gay’, ’100% Straight’ and then Bisexual is slap bang in the middle and everyone conforms to this in the entire world. There must be variations in everyone. Nobody is the same. Perhaps there are people who are 100% gay or 100% straight, but surly not everyone. However, I firmly believe that you can’t change your sexual orientation. If you’re attracted to both women and men, you can ‘change’ and only be attracted to women. The same goes for people who are mostly attracted to either sex; you cant make yourself more attracted to women if you’re not really attracted to them in the first place. That’s just nonsense.

I hope this helps!

Mark asks…

I am questioning my sexuality?

I am questioning whether I may be bi , I have no problems at all with homo sexuality , however it makes me nervous when someone speaks about homo sexuality .
I find it easy to picture being with a boy but I wonder is this because I am suppressing my homosexuality ?
I want to be straight , However thinking about me being homosexual makes me nervous ? Is this the signs of somebody who may turn out to be straight or lesbian ?

adultdatingexpert answers:

But honey, you haven’t said a single word about attraction! If you’re attracted to girls too, then you might be gay, or maybe just a little bicurious. Either way, it’s always a good thing to question your sexuality.

Bottom line is, your sexuality will remain constant regardless of what you do or how you try to change yourself, so the best thing to do is to get out there and experiment, with both sexes. You can be discreet if you’re not ready to come out yet, but even if you do date a girl that doesn’t mean you can’t return to boys later, fuck the haters.

Nobody can tell you what your sexuality is but yourself. You just gotta figure it out – proactively.

Maria asks…

I am curois about my sexuality?

Hello, I am 14, I know you can’t choose your sexuality or deffinately know which one I am.

I look at lesbian porn and so get an erection, then I tried Bisexual, I still get a erection, when I look a homosexual porn, I tend to get a bit of a hard on at such moments,

whats going on, am I bisexual or just curios or is it a load of rubbish

adultdatingexpert answers:

Ok. So first of all, you are 14. This is great that you are feeling this way at a young age because that means you have a lot of time to figure it out. So whatever you do, don’t worry, because with time and experience, you will realize your true sexuality.

Now before you go asking people what they think, do know that you actually already have the answer to this question. Deep inside your mind, your subconscious knows your exact sexual preference. So instead of looking to outside sources to figure this out, you need to actually look deep inside yourself. Now I know this can be difficult. Many of us have clouded our minds so much with the outside influences of our peers, the media, and socially accepted ideas and norms, that we forget how important it is to think on our own. Some people actually get so lost in the outside world that they forget their hearts true desires. Sexuality is a little different because we can’t help the chemical reactions from occurring in our brains when something “turns us on.” But, if you listen to what others say about you instead of listening to your own feelings, then even figuring out your sexuality can become a very confusing situation.

So to save yourself some grief, I would only talk to an expert about this experience. Your family and friends may think they know, but the only advice you should take from them is to be true to yourself. There are psychologists specifically for people who question their sexuality. If you go to a psychologist like this, then you will be in a setting where you will feel comfortable to let all those thoughts and questions out. And then once you have explained all the feelings you are going through, the trained and educated psychologist can help you reveal to yourself your true sexuality.

Now you may be straight, gay, bisexual, just curious, or somewhere in between. No one really knows except you. I suggested the psychologist because they can help you bring your subconscious thoughts to the surface.

If you don’t want to see a psychologist, then here are some things you can do:

go to these websites:

and just google “gay help”

Search through the sites, and you will find tons of resources and people who can help you figure this out.

I hope all this helps! Send me an e-mail if you’d like.

Michael asks…

Im confused on my sexuality?

I have been wondering about my sexuality for years now. I’m a girl and I do like guys, but ever since 7th grade I have been wondering if I also like girls. I have “experimented” with girls and have done things with them, but I had no attraction for them. Although, I do feel like I used to like this girl, and it was the same attraction I would feel for a guy with her. She was bi, and when she would talk about how she wanted to be in a relationship with my friend, it hurt me a bit. and then on valentines day since neither one of us had a valentine, we decided to become valentines and she gave me this fake flower and i kept that flower and i felt like it meant a lot. i don’t miss her anymore now though because a lot has changed. but sometimes i’ll find myself developing little crushes on girls.

Well, basically, i don’t think I really like vagina, but i do develop feeling for girls?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Okay, first of all you need to establish the difference between being romantically attracted (ie having crushes and indeed even falling in love) and being sexually attracted (ie having sexual desires for people, wanting to have sex with them). It is a fact that you can be romantically attracted to anyone. (Obviously it is much more likely that you will be romantically attracted to the gender that you are sexually attracted to, but it is also possible that you will be romantically attracted to the gender you are not sexually attracted to.)
Your sexuality determines who you are sexually attracted to. Therefore, contrary to popular belief, when trying to find out what your sexuality is, you should pay little attention to the gender that you feel romantically attracted to, as this can be either gender. You say “I don’t think I really like vagina but I do develop feelings for girls”. This suggests that you can be romantically attracted to girls, but not sexually attracted. Therefore this suggests that you are straight.
My advice to you would be to just wait. Don’t try and rush this. It may take a while to become clear but I’m sure you’ll realise everything soon.

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Your Questions About Adult Add

Charles asks…

What is the pill that helps people focus?

I hear there is a pill college students take to help them stay focused. I have the worst attention span, possibly even adult ADD and I was thinking of asking a doctor about it but I wanted to first make sure it was something safe. Any opinions would be great. I don’t want anything addictive.

adultdatingexpert answers:

You don’t need any pill that is going to mess with your brain chemistry maybe irreversibly and have you dependent [addicted] and possibly a nervous wreck somewhere down the line….so I would stay away from those pharmaceutical preparations others have mentioned. I would avoid your doctor regarding this because most likely he or she will just prescribe one of these unless they have an interest in preventative medicine.

All you need is to add some oily fish to your daily diet [mackeral, sardines, sild, brisling, salmon, fresh tuna or kippers for instance]. But if you don’t like to eat oily fish or it is not practical for you to do so then just take a capsule of fish oil every day. It is the omega 3 fatty acids that will benefit you here. Read this article: “fish oil calms children better than ritalin”:

Other than that you could try the herb Gotu kola. It has been used in India by researchers wanting to increase concentration and attention in children:

….prescribed as part of Ayurvedic Medicine [of India] for that very purpose for both children and adults alike [do some research if interested].

If you need a tonic for your nervous system….try B complex vitamins…preferably in a time release format [B50 strength]. Magnesium is also good….best taken in combination with calcium [1:2].

For anxiety: lemon balm or rooibos tea might help.

Carol asks…

I have been taking oxycodone 30 mg for breakthrough pain, I had it changed to morphine 30 mg, which is better?

I think I am feeling more tired with the morphine. I also started taking concerta 26 mg. Previously I was taking adderal, 10 mg for adult add. I have been sleeping more than usual, wondered what to change?

adultdatingexpert answers:

The oxycodone is a faster for breakthrough pain and will relieve larger pain quicker but it is a little harder to stop taking,the morphine sulfate stays in your system longer and tens to have a lasting effect when most people seem to need the oxy more often i say which ever you use that relieves the pain and you have to take the least is the one i would use

Sharon asks…

Can someone who has taken Ritalin provide some insight for me?

Hello, I am 29 years old and my doctor is thinking of prescribing Ritalin for me for adult ADD. She wants me to possibly try it for one week to see if it helps with concentration.

If you have taken this medication, can you please explain how it affected you when you started it?

adultdatingexpert answers:

I don’t know anything about it, except that it chemically alters your behavior in one way or another, why don’t you try to learn to focus the old fashioned way? I just don’t think drugs are worth it unless you absolutely require them, good luck :)

Laura asks…

I can’t balance a checkbook. Can I hire an accountant to manage my finances and how much is it?

I have adult add, and I have actually bounced 9 checks in one day. We have declared bankruptcy and now we are even giving up our home. I always forget to balance my checkbook and pay bills. Can I hire an accountant to pay the bills and just deal with cash for my purchases? How much is an accountant?

adultdatingexpert answers:

You can hire an accountant to do the work but is it worth the $125 an hour? Beware of fraud as people who leave all aspects of their finances to someone else are easy targets.

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Your Questions About Sexual Harassment

Susan asks…

Should I report her for sexual harassment?

Some girl in school goes up to me in the hallway and says, “Hey, you’re really cute.” Then she pats my butt and leaves. I don’t know her well. Should I report her for sexual harassment?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Yeah thats sexual harassment any touch that you find inappropriate is sexual harassment, but its your choice to report her. But for me i wouldnt coz if its just a one time thing and you tell them straight out that you dont want them to do it.
But you should if its on going and makes you uncomfortable.

Sandy asks…

is this categorized as sexual harassment?

in my college anatomy and physiology class the instructor was giving examples of various disorders and organ damage with use of sexual examples. such as the anal rectum loosing functionality through homosexual anal sex and insertion of large objects. ( specifics were given that I wont get into) and how someone could get a prolapsed bladder and her example was that in her country the military men would rape women and if they fought they would sodomize them with the barrel of machines guns. This made me very uncomfortable and i ultimately decided to leave the school for thi and several other reason. now they are telling me i owe them 3000 dollars for the one class i took. i dont feel i should have to pay for a class that made me this uncomfortable because of the teachers chosen examples. is this a form of sexual harassment or if not what would this behavior be classified as.

adultdatingexpert answers:

No, that is not sexual harassment. For your benefit, I have included the legal definition of sexual harassment below. There is no particular classification for the professor’s behavior I know of other than brutal honesty. That you were uncomfortable with it is really just your own issue, not hers.

Sexual Harassment:
Unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature constitute sexual harassment when:
1) Submission to such conduct is made either explicitly or implicitly a term or condition of an individual’s employment,
2) Submission to or rejection of such conduct by an individual is used as the basis for employment decisions affecting such individuals, or
3) Such conduct has the purpose or effect of unreasonably interfering with an individual’s work performance or creating an intimidating, hostile, or offensive working environment.

Nancy asks…

Advice books on sexual harassment?

ok, does anybody know books that give advice on what people should do if they have been sexually harassed? no its not me, i need it for a speech i am doing in class and my topic is sexual harassment in schools, so if you have in books that give advice to basically teenagers, that would help much more. If you do know a book, can you give me the title, where i can find it, and a link that shows the book, like from or something, and if you dont mind can you tell me a little about it if you’ve read it,
thank you in advance =)

adultdatingexpert answers:

Books are not going to tell it all. What is sexual harrasment? Sexual harassment in the work place and sexual harassment at school may be two different things? What is the difference? In the work place, a person must be in a position of authority or have some power over you. In the school, would this only apply to teachers, tutors, or other school employee? Do unwated advances fit in the same catagory as sexual harassment? Where is the line drawn when it comes to sexual harassment from another student? What are the school polices? What is the opinion of the principle, vice principle, and concellor since these are the people that are responsible for maintaing an optimum learning environment. What do you do when you keep getting unwanted advances when you are not on school property? How do you document that you are being sexually harrased so it is not a he said, she said, his word against hers. Where does the liabilty of the school end, and the local police begin? When do you use school athortity to help, or can you use peer pressure to your advantage?

Below is a good link that will get you started…..

Joseph asks…

Sexual Harassment/assault?

This is my first year in college and I’m studying law. I have a question:

Isn’t the touching of the bottom (butt, buttocks), without the person’s consent of course, molestation? Why do some people classify it as sexual harassment and not molestation/sexual assault? I thought sexual harassment was only verbal?

adultdatingexpert answers:

From the EEOC:

Sexual harassment is a form of sex discrimination that violates Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964. Title VII applies to employers with 15 or more employees, including state and local governments. It also applies to employment agencies and to labor organizations, as well as to the federal government.

Unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature constitute sexual harassment when this conduct explicitly or implicitly affects an individual’s employment, unreasonably interferes with an individual’s work performance, or creates an intimidating, hostile, or offensive work environment.

Sexual harassment can occur in a variety of circumstances, including but not limited to the following:

The victim as well as the harasser may be a woman or a man. The victim does not have to be of the opposite sex.
The harasser can be the victim’s supervisor, an agent of the employer, a supervisor in another area, a co-worker, or a non-employee.
The victim does not have to be the person harassed but could be anyone affected by the offensive conduct.
Unlawful sexual harassment may occur without economic injury to or discharge of the victim.
The harasser’s conduct must be unwelcome.
It is helpful for the victim to inform the harasser directly that the conduct is unwelcome and must stop. The victim should use any employer complaint mechanism or grievance system available.

When investigating allegations of sexual harassment, EEOC looks at the whole record: the circumstances, such as the nature of the sexual advances, and the context in which the alleged incidents occurred. A determination on the allegations is made from the facts on a case-by-case basis.

Prevention is the best tool to eliminate sexual harassment in the workplace. Employers are encouraged to take steps necessary to prevent sexual harassment from occurring. They should clearly communicate to employees that sexual harassment will not be tolerated. They can do so by providing sexual harassment training to their employees and by establishing an effective complaint or grievance process and taking immediate and appropriate action when an employee complains.

It is also unlawful to retaliate against an individual for opposing employment practices that discriminate based on sex or for filing a discrimination charge, testifying, or participating in any way in an investigation, proceeding, or litigation under Title VII.

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Your Questions About Adult Children Of Alcoholics

Daniel asks…

When booking for Royal Caribbean Cruises what age is a child?And what age is an adult?

Would a child be from infant to 12 or to 18?

adultdatingexpert answers:

That’s a difficult question to answer because the cruise line has different requirements for kids on their ships. In general a person age 18 and above is considered an adult. However:

-If you are booking a cruise the fare for an adult and a child will be the same. For example, if a mother and one child under age 18 (i.e. 15) want to cruise they will pay the exact same fare, regardless of the child’s age. If a family of 4 is cruising together in a cabin the first two people pay the same fare and the next two people pay a lower fare that is also the same. One of those additional two could be 19 and the other 13 and they will still pay the same fare.

-If a person wants to book a Royal Caribbean cruise he/she must be at least age 21 and there must be a person that age in the cabin.

-On the other hand, the programs that the cruise line runs for kids are from age 2 through age 17. So persons age 18 and older are not considered kids and would be considered adults.

-If a person wants to gable on ship the can do that at age 18. However, persons under the age of 21 cannot buy or consume alcoholic beverages on the ships.

Ken asks…

Is there a site on the internet for adult children of alcoholics to information about the problem?

adultdatingexpert answers:

You’d be better off reading “I’m Dysfunctional, You’re Dysfunctional” by Wendy Kaminer. It’s available in most public libraries.

ACoA tends to keep people stuck rather than move past their problems.


Maria asks…

How old do you have to be to drink non alcoholic drinks in pubs?

I’m 13, and live in the UK.
If I walked into a pub and ordered a NON alcoholic drink, would they serve me or not?


adultdatingexpert answers:

No pub in the UK is allowed to serve anyone under the age of 18. Minors are not even allowed to be in the vicinity of the bar area and must always be accompanied by a responsible adult (that means you would not be allowed in by yourself). Family pubs allow any children in certain dining areas of the pub and they can have soft drinks bought for them by adults.

Some more old-fashioned pubs only allow children of 14+ into pubs and then only if they are having a meal.

REALLY old-fashioned pubs only allow anyone over 18 onto the premises.

These choices, as long as within current legislation, are entirely up to the owners/managers of the pub and they have the right to refuse to serve anyone they like without reason.

David asks…

What age were you considered legally an adult in the 1940′s and 1950′s?

Did the term “Adult” even exist back then and the age of majority was it like 18 for females in some states and 21 for males.Did “Teenagers” exist back then also and what age were you officially an adult was it the age you could sign a contract which was 21?What was the drinking age?

adultdatingexpert answers:

The Growth of Teenagers as a Market Force in 1950′s Society-
Until 1950 the term teenagers had never before been coined. Children were known as girls and boys were known as youths once they displayed signs of puberty. Then young people were grown up at 18 and fully adult legally at 21 when they often married and set up a home of their own, even if it was a rented room. Getting married was a way of showing the adult world that you belonged to their world and was a way of escape from puberty.

According to the Kansas Dept of Revenue & Alcoholic Beverage Control, prohibition on alcoholic beverages from 1920 was nationwide and continued into the 30s when it was overturned, then each state had to vote to regulate and tax liquor. Prohibition on alcoholic beverages continued into the 1940s with essentially lipservice being played to enforcement. However, that was about to change! In 1946 the drinking age for alcoholic liquor was set at 21, while the drinking age for cereal malt beverage remained at 18. It is interesting to note that by 1949, forty-five of the forty-eight contiguous states had already legalized the sale of alcoholic liquor.

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Your Questions About Sexy And I Know It Lyrics

Laura asks…

Does anyone know any mainstream songs that actually sounded good without the vocals or lyrics?

Three examples are Justin Bieber’s “Baby” and Ke$ha’s “Blah Blah Blah” and David Guetta and Akon’s Sexy B***ch. Any more songs that actually sounded good or in fact, better without the vocals or lyrics? Please give me feedback thanks!

adultdatingexpert answers:

Coldplay’s “Life in Technicolor i” is a great song. If you want to hear the song with vocals, listen to part ii

Linda asks…

Are there any good comedy songs for a classical tenor?

So mezzos like Susan Graham have things like Sexy Lady by Ben Moore to finish a recital with…Zina Goldrich wrote the Alto’s Lament (musical theatre rather than classical, but still great!!) so as a tenor, I‘m wondering if there are any great comedy songs out there for me, preferrably of a classical bent, but happy with MT as well I suppose! It doesnt HAVE to be about the trials of being a tenor, but it‘d be a perk, certainly! Thanks in advance!

adultdatingexpert answers:

I don’t know if you would call them “comedy” songs, but of course there are funny or witty songs and arias for tenor. Mike’s on the right track by suggesting you try some Gilbert and Sullivan. Their operettas are famous for their humor. Other operettas (or light operas as they are also called) may have songs for you to try.


Rossini wrote several comic operas, and so did Mozart, so you might want to check those out for material if you want something especially challenging.

Plus humorous songs arranged for high voice would also work. Besides art songs, you might consider folk songs, especially those arranged by classical composers.

“I Bought Me a Cat” (arrangement by Aaron Copland) might be a fun way to cap off recital of more serious music.

If you can get away with bawdy or suggestive songs, there are things like:

You can find the sheet music (with cleaned up lyrics) here, but you may want to transpose the key up or try to find an arrangement better suited for tenor. On the other hand, there may be other songs
in this collection that are amusing and family friendly.


If you expand to Musical Theatre, then the song choice is especially endless.

“Mr. Cellophane” from “Chicago” is a crowd pleaser, and it has a nice long note for you to hold at the end.

Ruth asks…

Need lyrics about the cytoplasm to the song ‘Gangnam Style’?

I am doing a project for bio where we need to present information on the parts of a cell and me and my friend are doing the nucleus and the cytoplasm. So I need just lyrics about cytoplasm to the song Gangnam Style by Psy. Any suggestions are welcome :) Thanks!!!

adultdatingexpert answers:

Well, I have no idea what a cytoplasm is or what is has to do with the song I’ve listened to 35 times since I started counting monday night, but here ya go:
English Translation:
Oppa is Gangnam style
Gangnam style

A girl who is warm and humanle during the day
A classy girl who know how to enjoy the freedom of a cup of coffee
A girl whose heart gets hotter when night comes
A girl with that kind of twist

I’m a guy
A guy who is as warm as you during the day
A guy who one-shots his coffee before it even cools down
A guy whose heart bursts when night comes
That kind of guy

Beautiful, loveable
Yes you, hey, yes you, hey
Beautiful, loveable
Yes you, hey, yes you, hey
Now let’s go until the end

Oppa is Gangnam style, Gangnam style
Oppa is Gangnam style, Gangnam style
Oppa is Gangnam style

Eh- Sexy Lady, Oppa is Gangnam style
Eh- Sexy Lady oh oh oh oh

A girl who looks quiet but plays when she plays
A girl who puts her hair down when the right time comes
A girl who covers herself but is more sexy than a girl who bares it all
A sensable girl like that

I’m a guy
A guy who seems calm but plays when he plays
A guy who goes completely crazy when the right time comes
A guy who has bulging ideas rather than muscles
That kind of guy

Beautiful, loveable
Yes you, hey, yes you, hey
Beautiful, loveable
Yes you, hey, yes you, hey
Now let’s go until the end

Oppa is Gangnam style, Gangnam style
Oppa is Gangnam style, Gangnam style
Oppa is Gangnam style

Eh- Sexy Lady, Oppa is Gangnam style
Eh- Sexy Lady oh oh oh oh

On top of the running man is the flying man, baby baby
I’m a man who knows a thing or two
On top of the running man is the flying man, baby baby
I’m a man who knows a thing or two

You know what I’m saying
Oppa is Gangnam style

Eh- Sexy Lady, Oppa is Gangnam style
Eh- Sexy Lady oh oh oh oh

Oppan gang-namseutayil

Naje-neun ttasaroun inkanjeo-gin yeoja
Keopi hanjanye yeoyureuraneun pumkyeok i-nneun yeoja
Bami omyeon shimjangi tteugeowojineun yeoja
Keureon banjeon i-nneun yeoja

Naneun sana-i
Naje-neun neomankeum ttasaroun geureon sana-i
Keopi shikgido jeone wonsyas ttaerineun sana-i
Bami omyeon shimjangi teojyeobeorineun sana-i
Keureon sana-i

Areumdawo sarangseureowo
Keurae neo hey keurae baro neo hey

Areumdawo sarangseureowo
Keurae neo hey keurae baro neo hey

Chigeumbu-teo kal dekkaji kabol-kka

Oppan gang-namseutayil


Oppan gang-namseutayil


Oppan gang-namseutayil

Eh- sexy lady
Oppan gang-namseutayil

Eh- sexy lady

Jeongsu-khae boijiman nol ttaen noneun yeoja
Ittaeda shipeumyeon mukkeot-deon meori puneun yeoja
Karyeot-jiman wen-manhan nochulboda yahan yeoja
Keureon gamkakjeo-gin yeoja

Naneun sana-i
Jeomjanha boijiman nol ttaen noneun sana-i
Ttae-ga dwehmyeon wahnjeon michyeobeorineun sana-i
Keunyukboda sasangi ul-tungbul-tung-han sana-i
Keureon sana-i

Areumdawo sarangseureowo
Keurae neo hey keurae baro neo hey

Areumdawo sarangseureowo
Keurae neo hey keurae baro neo hey

Chigeumbu-teo kal dekkaji kabol-kka

Oppan gang-namseutayil


Oppan gang-namseutayil


Oppan gang-namseutayil

Eh- sexy lady
Oppan gang-namseutayil

Eh- sexy lady

Ttwiineun nom keu wiie naneun nom
Baby baby
Naneun mwol jom aneun nom

Ttwiineun nom keu wiie naneun nom
Baby baby
Naneun mwol jom aneun nom

You know what i’m saying

Oppan gang-namseutayil

Eh- sexy lady
Oppan gang-namseutayil

Eh- sexy lady
Oppan gang-namseutayil

Robert asks…

Can you name a song that has flirty lyrics in it?

I need a song with flirty lyrics in it. This guy I like sent me flirty lyrics in a message and I wanna send some flirty lyrics back to him. Any ideas?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sexy Can I, Touch My Body, Bubbly, Realize, I Hate That I Love You

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Your Questions About Adulthood

Helen asks…

What animals take as long as humans to reach adulthood?

Not withstanding our definitions of adulthood, human babies remain helpless for a very long time, requiring constant adult care. Are there any animals that have comparable childhood stages?

adultdatingexpert answers:

African elephants, the infants stay with their mothers for life, unless its a little bull. Elephants reach puberty at age 12 years and gives birth (on average) every five years. The average elephant reaches the age of 65 – 70 years. There are records of elephants growing 80 years old.
I’m not sure if Asian elephants have the same life span.

Sandra asks…

Can you randomly start to become gay during early adulthood?

if someone were to be straight all of their life, from puberty to to early adulthood they were straight could they all of a sudden start playing for the other team?

adultdatingexpert answers:

They would be bisexual. And yes it’s possible. Sexuality is fluid in that sense

Sandy asks…

If the drinking age is 21 why cant the legal age of adulthood be?

In every other country the drinking age is the same as the age of adulthood.I think that an 18 year old is immature,spoiled and not grown.

adultdatingexpert answers:

I’ve asked the same question of a police officer and it was explained like this;

Certain responsibilities can be bestowed before others, and are given piecemeal. The state may say for example that someone is responsible enough to drive a motor vehicle at 16, but not responsible enough to make political decisions in voting which occurs at 18. At 18 they are responsible enough to drive, hold a job, vote, but not responsible when it comes to alcohol. And so forth…

Whether we agree with that assessment or not is a side issue (I personally think you should have full rights for everything at 18). But this is the way that many states view the issue.

Lisa asks…

How is emerging adulthood relevant to American culture?

In other words, how is the concept of emerging adulthood (which is how many 18-25 year olds are postponing full-blown adulthood and remaining somewhat dependent on their parents) relevant today? I’m talking about cultural and societal changes in past couple decades (such as increased schooling, etc.), I don’t want any answers like “because they’re lazy, spoiled brats”

adultdatingexpert answers:

When they get their driver’s license i think. Then become consumers. Use and abuse credit. Make mistakes like tattoos that will be with them for the rest of life. Seems to be a delayed maturity and the mid thirty year olds seems to act like teens. We are a culutre of worshipping youth, that’s maybe why they don’t want to grow up.

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