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Your Questions About Sex Pistols

Daniel asks…

How to get a punk rock sound on your guitar?

I have been listening to punk rock bands like The Ramones and The Sex Pistols recently and just released how sweet the guitars sound. A guitar sound that would also be really cool to use in a rock n’ roll band. How can I get it in the cheapest way possible? I don’t want to buy effects but if it’s necessary I would probably buy some.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Punk bands always, for the most part, use a lot of distortion and overdrive. Its just that dirty punk sound. The cheapest way to do it would be to buy a distortion pedal, especially if all you have is a small practice amp that doesn’t really provide a lot of distortion. However, its always a great investment to buy an amp that has built in effects. Most of the digital effect amps have different settings modeled after different amps. I have a Behringer and it has everything from Fender tube amps, to a modern Marshall stack. Another thing is the tuning. A lot of punk bands will play a half step down. Also, they typically only use their bridge pick up. Hope this helps.

Betty asks…

How do I make spikes with my hair using Knox Gelatin?

I just cut my hair and I want to make spikes like Sid Vicious from the Sex Pistols use to have. I have 3 packets of Knox Gelatin. How many do I use and do I mix it will really hot, warm, or cold water? What exactly do I have to do to make the spikes stand up? Do I blow dry it afterwards?

adultdatingexpert answers:

White Elmer’s glue is great.

Sharon asks…

How many albums did The Sex Pistols make?

I heard they only made one: “Never mind the bullocks, heres The Sex Pistols.

MUSIC

adultdatingexpert answers:

Your right, that was their only album every released.

Thomas asks…

Is it illegal to record a vocal cover with the insturmental version of the song in the background?

I wanna do a vocal cover of the sex pistols and put it on YouTube but not sell it. im gunna use audacity. is that illegal??

adultdatingexpert answers:

U mean slex pistols

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Your Questions About Adult Children Of Alcoholics

Susan asks…

Where can I celebrate my son’s 1st birthday without spending too much?

My son will be turning one on 9/23.

Yes, I KNOW this party is more for my husband and I. We had a difficult time during pregnancy and he might be our only child so YES, again, I am aware my son will not remember this, nevertheless we want to celebrate.

About 35 Adults + 15 children ages 1-8.

Budget is low. Maybe $500 including food. Unless I just have cake & ice cream and party favors?

I live in Los Angeles County bordering Orange County. Any suggestions? Thank you!

adultdatingexpert answers:

For that price best place would be in your home make it more like kids in your front or backyard and adults in the house with non alcoholic wine a bounce house or scratch that and put party games like musical chairs water baloon toss maybe even a small pool a kiddie pool and a pinata

Thomas asks…

Why are teenagers and young adults so ungrateful for everything these days?

They are given the world by half of us n they dont give two shi’ts, and most of them are alcoholics.
Why do they do this?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Because they’re spoiled brats. Of course, that might just be because someone in a previous generation decided that disciplining their children was going to damage them psychologically, but I digress.

Sharon asks…

Is it true that children of alcoholics/addicts tend to have more anxiety problems than others?

I have had severe anxiety and suffered from depression my whole life. My life isn’t bad at all! But I grew up in a dysfunctional household with a drunk dad who didn’t care and a depressed mom who wasn’t around much. I finally saw a counselor last year and she said it’s very common for children of drunks/addicts to have high levels of anxiety in their adult years. Does anyone know if this is true or suffer from this?

adultdatingexpert answers:

It is somewhat of an over-simplified answer.
Children of alcoholics and / or mental illness often have had inconsistent parenting. As a result those children often have not negotiated the various developmental stages of early life as well as children from healthier parents. The consequences of that can be low self-esteem, inadequate development of social skill, difficulty forming close relationships and boundary problems. All the above can make interacting with others more stressful – thus anxiety or depression.
Also, there could be underlying biological markers for depression or anxiety that your parents experienced. It is not uncommon for people to use alcohol or other drugs to self-medicate their mood only to have the alcohol or drug turn into a primary disorder of its own later.

Joseph asks…

What kind of community causes do you donate your time and/or money to and why?

I work for a non-profit agency that works with people of all ages and abilities. We are trying to raise money for a state of the art facility for a preschool, k-12 school, 4 adult day habilitation programs, children’s case management, developmental therapy, physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, and a greenhouse work program for adults, as well as community gardens, and a handicap accessible playground for the community. To better our community by increasing the abilities of the most disabled people in our community so they contribute to the community (and have an income), and provide a play/picnic area for all families and children of all abilities.
I am wondering what people donate to and why. It seems that there are many programs (grants and private trusts) to assist in things like animal shelters, and parks and things like that that are not such a high priority need for most communities. So why support these programs over programs that assist our community on a larger scale. Everyone knows someone who is an alcoholic/drug abuser, developmentally disabled, physically disabled, abused, raped, or has children in public programming and or activities, so why do chose to donate elsewhere?

adultdatingexpert answers:

First of all, who are you to say that animal shelters & parks are not as worthy/needy of funding as your program?

People donate to non-profits that directly effect their own lives. I donate $$ to my local community radio station. It might not seem like priority to you, but it is to me b/c I listen to that station everyday & my life would be empty without it. I also donate my time to Big Brothers Big Sisters, because it’s an established, well-known organization and I am directly involved in the life of my Little Sister.

Perhaps you need to publicize your organization more. Issue press releases about the work that you’re doing, start a direct mail campaign, have regular events (bake sales, car washes, concerts) to get the word out. The more people know about your charity, the more willing they will be to donate to it.

Remember – there are *tons* of worthy charities out there in need of funding. We can’t give to all of them – it’s just impossible. We do what we can afford, so we choose the ones that matter most to us. Don’t take it so personally that *everyone* isn’t contributing to yours. We have different values.

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Your Questions About Sexy And I Know It

Robert asks…

How to improve my looks and appear more sexy and feminine?

Hi, I am into cross-dressing and want to truly experience what its like being a sexy female! I will need a lot of help and suggestions from you Girls! Where shall I start and how can I make myself look pretty? I want to be absolutely convincing and I am willing to go to a salon! Any ideas on clothes, treatments, nails, makeup, hair? Please help!

adultdatingexpert answers:

Hair: styled, if it is short you can start to grow it out,get extensions or wigs. Try different hair styles and your can try highlights/dye. I would go for more of a Natural look though.
Makeup:again, natural. Emphasis you good/feminine features
Clothes:depending on your body type i’d go for feminine prints and Accessories and styles that flatter you in a Feminine way (give you an hourglass figure, makes it appear like yo have a larger bust…)
Nails: go longer if you can but not claws. Try french manicures, fun designs and sexy colours:)
Most importantly dress comfortably and in a way that makes you feel good about you:) your beautiful no matter what others think

Richard asks…

How to improve my looks and appear more sexy and feminine?

Hi, I am into cross-dressing and want to truly experience what its like being a sexy female! I will need a lot of help and suggestions from you Girls! Where shall I start and how can I make myself look pretty? I want to be absolutely convincing and I am willing to go to a salon! Any ideas on clothes, treatments, nails, makeup, hair? Please help!

adultdatingexpert answers:

First, for starters if you are really pale go to a Tanning Salon. Next, if you don’t want to pay a fortune to go get a mani and pedi then get glue on nails. Next if you aren’t satisfied with your hair color you can never go wrong with bleach blonde, thats what all the guys shoot for. Buy some cool makeup and try new things. Then, if you do not have a cool wardrobe find some cheap clothing stores or go to some places that are new and you haven’t yet to try. Thats how I came to looking how I am. Look at my pic and you’ll see why you should do these things. But always remeber inner beauty is what really matters so don’t be a snob. Good luck getting sexy! Lol -Gabriella

Donald asks…

What is your favorite sexiest outfit for november?

Have you seen any new sexy outfits online that are just too good to pass up? I have been browsing the internet looking for some hot items. Links to clothing pieces that YOU have found would be most appreciative!

adultdatingexpert answers:

I still think my nurse’s outfit is the sexiest !

David asks…

What are some of the sexiest professions for men and women?

List the jobs that are sexiest for men.
Then list the jobs that are sexiest for women.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Men: Firefighters, mechanics (I don’t know why but it’s sexy), doctors.

Women: Uh… Strippers? Lol I can’t think of any.

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Your Questions About Adulthood

David asks…

When will Scotland raise the age of adulthood to 21?

The age of majority worldwide should be 21 infact in the United States it should have stayed 21 in every state especially since we know the brain is fully developed at age 25 and the drinking age is 21 so “Adulthood” should be when you have all adult rights.I heard in Scotland you are an adult at 16 are they crazy I mean 18 is a baby and in Mississippi the age of majority is still 21 they are smarter than other states,also in Alabama and Nebraska its 19 they refus to lower it cause of the brain info.

adultdatingexpert answers:

We shouldn’t have to change the age of adulthood just because Americans want us to. It’s up to us, it’s our country, not yours.

Most Scottish people by the age of 16 are much more mature than Americans at age 16, it’s just how our schools work.

In American movies I see I’m always quite shocked at how childish 16-18 year old Americans are. They throw tantrums and just act like they’re 12 years old.
I’m 17, Scottish and if I ever acted like that for a length of time my mum would ask me to move out. There’s massive cultural differences you have to take into account.

At age 16 we can marry, it’s the age of consent and we can leave school.

Age 17 is driving and age 18 is buying alcohol and cigarettes.

I’m quite happy I was an adult at age 16, I felt mature enough. I left school, went to college, which was the best decision of my life. Just because I had the option to marry doesn’t mean I’ll run off and do it any chance I get. I probably won’t till I’m at least 30, I want to travel the world and live my life first.
You have to allow teenagers to have brains of their own, we’re not “babies” like you said.

Our countries are doing just fine right now without you imposing your rules on us.

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@The Dark Side.
The rules in Scotland are a bit different from the rest of the UK on quite a few things. We have a completely different education system as well. I was told in School that I’m an adult at 16, and everything else I said. So…? I don’t think I’m mistaken. Just we’re a bit different from England on some things.

Steven asks…

What percentage of life that is created is actually born and survives into adulthood?

Don’t you think it’s overwhelming the road an average fetus travels to survive. It has to avoid abortion, miscarriage, survive birth, survive abusive parents, abusive teachers and schoolmasters, abductions, being murdered by it’s parents, kidnapped and held hostage.

I’d like to know the stats on how many lives that are actually created get to survive into adulthood. I bet the numbers of “terminations” are staggering much like genocide.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Probablyless than 0.000000000000001%

Richard asks…

What are somethings you like about adulthood more than childhood?

Generally, I always hear people harp about how much being an adult sucks. Well, trying to be positive, is there anything about adulthood that you like more than childhood?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sex

Donald asks…

Does a puppy with Parvo have a good chance of living into healthy adulthood?

We have purchased a puppy (8 wk old black male lab X) from a pet rescue site and become quite attached though are yet to pick him up, and he has come down with Parvo. He is apparently doing really well, what are his chances of living into a healthy, robust adulthood? We want to save him only I am a little concerned he might be sickly for his whole life. Will he be contagious for long? Does anyone have advice?

adultdatingexpert answers:

I am a licensed veterinary technician. Most of the puppies with parvo that we treat in the hospital turn out fine. The major problems happen when owners wait too long to have them treated in the first place. However, there is always a chance of them having a low immune system in the first place. I took in a very ill parvo puppy that was left on the doorstep. We didn’t think he would make it. He is trying to steal toast from my husband as I type this, and he will be 9 years old next month. Studies say anywhere from 30-90 days as to being contagious.Just be careful and avoid other puppies and unvaccinated dogs as long as possible!!! Use 1 part bleach to 10 parts water to clean hard surfaces and the bottom of your shoes. I hope he does well and you get a great friend.

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Your Questions About Sexting

Nancy asks…

what are your thoughts about sexting?

I’m curious, I’m pretty sure a lot of you can be accused of sexting in one way or another, I dont see harm, other then pictures can surface, but if thats the case, dont you think you should TRUST the person your sexting? i mean at least kids arent out there having sex. i know a lot of people are going crazy over it but i really dont think its that bad, wats your opionon?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sexting irks me…many sext to people they trust, but after that, they get more comfortable sending naked pictures…it’s porn over the cellphone, really. These young kids saying nasty things over the phone…it is something that they will regret in the long run. OK, funny story, long story cut short, my friends were fake sexting. Even while they were just having fun, it was completely gross. Yeah, I’m sure you don’t see exactly what’s wrong here, but I don’t believe sexting is safe in any way.

Joseph asks…

Is this sexting if…?

I want to send my boyfriend a picture of my new bikini I just bought. Is it considered sexting if I send him a picture of me in it (shows nothing indecent) to his email? Thanks

adultdatingexpert answers:

No, sexting would be if you were naked.

I have seen plenty of pictures of underage girls in bikinis & they’re legal.

Even though the law puts minors who picture sext in prison & there’s lots of puritans out there saying sexting is despicable, it’s not. Picture sexting is no different than having sex & it’s no different than seeing each other naked at a nudist resort. It’s the people supporting the underage picture sexting laws that are a threat to humanity. There is nothing wrong with underage picture sexting.

Here is how the child porn laws should be: If a minor & someone within 4 years of age exchange nude pictures of themselves & keep them between each other then no crime has been committed. If someone sends those nude pictures of that minor to a bunch of other people then there’s the crime.

Sandra asks…

Flirting or sexting? ?

So I’m 13 1/2 and there’s a guy that goes to my school and we talk alot about making out and other stuff If you know what I mean… We also talk about our bodies… And sex stuff.. So pretty much is this sexting or flirting?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sexting is when you send sexual texts and pictures to one another. I’d say you’re “hooking up” or “talking” as per the definition from my town.
When I sext people it’s really hardcore. I’m concerned if you’re doing it the way I’m doing it. Hope I don’t sound whory, but it’s very very detailed.
I don’t count it as sexting til 1. Naked pics are exchanged. Meaning both people give one. 2. A story is begun and being written throughout and 3. Someone has begun to touch themselves.

Susan asks…

what exactly is sexting?

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adultdatingexpert answers:

Sexting is sending racy pictures of yourself like pictures of yourself naked or half naked to someone else via a cellphone or the internet.

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Your Questions About Adults

Lisa asks…

What makes someone an adult?

What is your definition of being an adult? What characteristics do adults possess? Or how does one become an adult?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Webster’s definition of “adult” is “having attained full size and strength; grown up.” This is unspecific, but I suppose, if you’re going by Webster’s definition, you would become an adult the instant you are full grown.

I think that I’d say once you hit twenty-one, you’re an adult. You’re responsible for your own decisions, you have to work for a living, your life is completely in your hands.

I’m going to answer your question with a question: What do you think? What matters more: Age or maturity? Is adulthood based on age? What about an eleven year old child who is mentally as mature as a forty year old adult?

Fascinating question. Thanks for sacrificing those points to exercise my mind. :)

Charles asks…

Adults or teens = more prejudice???

i think that adults are more prejudice than teens. Do you agree? Why or Why not?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Adults because they are set in their ways, teens are exposed to alot more diversity than most adults were.

Plus, adults have a harder time adapting to new ideas, such as theres nothing wrong with being gay, whereas teens are more easily influenced in their ideas for or against.

Mary asks…

Free adult webhosting?

Do any one knows a free adult webhosting? I only know 110mb.com but you have to pay to use mysql database. I dont have no credit card to buy my own host, so dont offer me host that requires me to pay. Please tell me where i can find a free adult webhost for my adult site.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Adult sites have regulations.
You will NOT have any free host to host an adult site.
You will NOT have any merchand system (banking) accepting adult websites.
So, if you look for free, forget it.
NOW…
You can browse the web for “prom” (to avoid being ***).
Get in touch with the webmasters, and try to find a backdoor!

Sandra asks…

Adult dyslexia and remedies?

In which websites i can get details about Adult Dyslexia and its remedies, and free online dyslexia tests for adults?

adultdatingexpert answers:

There are several websites you can go to for information. Some claim their program will cure you. There is not one program that will work for all dyslexics.Our brains, yes I have dyslexia, make it so hard for researchers to find one program that works for all. Personally, I don’t believe there’s a ” cure” for dyslexia. I believe there are programs that teach us coping skills to help us learn. If you’re someone who needs to ” see it ” to understand it. Then, you may want to look at Dianne Craft’s program. This program can be used for adults even though it talks about kids. Basically it’s using pictures and colors to help you learn.

Http://www.diannecraft.com/

This is what I’ve been using for my children that I’m homeschooling; you know if an adult has dyslexia 50% of their children will also have it.I’ve also listed some other sites. I hope they’re helpful.

Http://www.bartonreading.com/research2.html#wont

http://www.dyslexia.com/

http://www.schwablearning.org/articles.aspx?

R=43&WT.srch=1

http://www.interdys.org/

http://www.dyslexia-test.com/adults.html

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Your Questions About Sex And The City Quotes

Sandra asks…

What website has cool Birth Day quotes for best-friends?

My friends b-day is in a week and i really need to write something sweet for her and im so not good at making this poems and stuff.

adultdatingexpert answers:

“The way I see it, you should live everyday like its your birthday” – Paris Hilton

“It takes a long time to grow young.” – Pablo Picasso

“I think I’m finally growing up – and about time.” – Elizabeth Taylor

“The secret to staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age.” – Lucille Ball

“It takes a long time to grow young.” – Pablo Picasso

“For my birthday I got a humidifier and a de-humidifier… I put them in the same room and let them fight it out.” – Stephen Wright

“And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.” – Abraham Lincoln

“It’s your birthday. You’re officially old.” – Sex and the City

Lisa asks…

cute birthday card quotes for a 13 year old?

My friend is turning 13…Im making her card, and i want a funny quote to go in it. Any ideas?

adultdatingexpert answers:

“The way I see it, you should live everyday like its your birthday” – Paris Hilton

“It takes a long time to grow young.” – Pablo Picasso

“I think I’m finally growing up – and about time.” – Elizabeth Taylor

“The secret to staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age.” – Lucille Ball

“It takes a long time to grow young.” – Pablo Picasso

“For my birthday I got a humidifier and a de-humidifier… I put them in the same room and let them fight it out.” – Stephen Wright

“And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.” – Abraham Lincoln

“It’s your birthday. You’re officially old.” – Sex and the City

Chris asks…

What are some funny/mean birthday quotes for a girl that is 15?

I wanna no.
My friend is about to turn 15 so i wanna say something mean/funny.
Thanks

adultdatingexpert answers:

“I think I’m finally growing up – and about time.” – Elizabeth Taylor

“The secret to staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age.” – Lucille Ball

“For my birthday I got a humidifier and a de-humidifier… I put them in the same room and let them fight it out.” – Stephen Wright

“It’s your birthday. You’re officially old.” – Sex and the City

“The moment you think you understand a great work of art, it’s dead for you.” – Oscar Wilde

Robert asks…

Why do I feel like my life’s hit a brick wall?

I suffer from paranoia a lot I always feel like new people who I meet are out to get me and when I talk to females who show interest in me I feel like there all the same. I’ve had 2 bad relationships been hurt badly in both and now just seem to have lost interest also my sex drive is gone. I always think of the worst outcome when meeting new people, I’ve started drinking a lot daily staying in the home and avoiding socialising situations. Is it worth speaking to a doctor about mild depression? As I don’t feel like my life’s going anywhere and everyday feels like a worrying struggle I’m 25. Your comments would be much appreciated.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Drinking is only a temporary fix, not to mention it ruins your health. You will be left depressed and riddled with sickness and damages to your body from the alcohol. I drank heavily for about a year, then I came back to my senses. I was punishing myself for nothing, and I had nothing to gain and everything to lose. You are your own enemy, marc. Tell yourself to stop doing things that will only bring more pain to your life. Instead, start caring for your body (you only get one in this lifetime) and from now on, only do things that YOU enjoy. For me, I love to draw and dance, both of which I can do alone, and they bring me joy. As to finding love, forget what other people or society expects you to do. They don’t know you, so don’t feel pressured to act in a certain way to please others, and don’t feel compelled to find love. True love will find you, so have patience. Be brave and talk to your women friends, join clubs in your city and volunteer in your free time, meet new people who share the same interests as you. Most important of all, love yourself first. Quit drinking and start doing more things that make yourself proud and happy of being YOU, be proud of your strengths, be proud of your existence for the last 25 years on this earth. Realize that you are an unique person worthy of love as much as anyone else, and take your time, you are not in any hurry.

Have a gander at this book, too (titled “Models”, by Mark Manson). It teaches one what it means to love oneself before one can be equipped to love others. I hope it’ll help you!

Http://ruxman.com/2013/10/01/13-quotes-from-models-by-mark-manson/

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Your Questions About Adult Halloween Costume

Sandy asks…

What is a Halloween costume for a teenage girl that isn’t slutty?

I’m 15 and I want some good ideas for a Halloween costume, something pretty, something funny or something really scary.

It shouldn’t be trashy, just fun :~)

adultdatingexpert answers:

Pirate-http://partycity.com/cgi-bin/search/search_286.cgi
Genie-http://partycity.com/cgi-bin/search/search_286.cgi
Doll in box-http://www.buycostumes.com/Doll-Box-Adult-Costume/31701/ProductDetail.aspx
Cat-http://www.buycostumes.com/Purr-fect-Lady-Teen-Costume/20317/ProductDetail.aspx
Marilyn Monroe-http://www.buycostumes.com/50s-Starlet-Adult-Costume/11188/ProductDetail.aspx
Tinman-http://www.buycostumes.com/Tin-Girl-Adult-Costume/21759/ProductDetail.aspx
Summer Daze-http://www.buycostumes.com/Summer-Daze-Adult-Costume/33676/ProductDetail.aspx

Maria asks…

I need to find an online site that sells masquerade style halloween costumes!?

I am looking for a halloween costume, and I would LOVE to have a masquerade ball gown, or something of that short.

Does ANYONE know of any websites that specialize in those type of costumes?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Here this should be what your looking for they are Belle Dresses – http://adults-costumes.com/belle-adult-costume.html

Mark asks…

How do I enlarge a children’s sewing pattern to fit an adult?

I have some children’s halloween costume patterns that I would like to make to fit adults. If I, for example, double or triple the pattern size, will that work, or will all the proportions be wrong? I’m a pretty inexperienced sewer, so please dumb the answers down a little!!

adultdatingexpert answers:

What are you trying to make? It’s easier to “doctor up” an adult pattern to be a costume than to try to grade up a children’s pattern for an adult… Far, far easier. Body proportions are so different from kids to adults that it’s not something I’d like to see an inexperienced person try.

Sandra asks…

Any ideas for Halloween costumes for two best friends?

My best friend and I are sixteen and we’re wondering what some good ideas for Halloween costumes would be that are appropriate, with just a hint of adult in it.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Amy winehouse and Marilyn monroe

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Your Questions About Sex Offender Registry

Mandy asks…

why is it good to have a sex offender registry?

i have to do a research paper and just want to know why it is good to have a registry for people who are convicted of sex offenses.

adultdatingexpert answers:

I think its good for some reasons. To notify you of offenders in your area, so the police will know where they are. So you can keep your children away from them.
On the other hand, I feel its unfair to make all people who have been convicted of a sex crime register. For instance, a 15 or 16 yr old boy who had sex with his 13 yr old girlfriend. Or a 11yr old kid who played dr with a 10 yr old. Ive seen alot of these sex offender cards that say what the person did. Then you look at the age and maybe they were 12 or 13 when it happened. Does this mean they are sex offenders? No, I dont think its fair that they should have to register and mark them for life. I know someone who’s son was seeing a girl. She was 15 and he 17, they had been going out for over a year. He broke up with her, she and her mom pressed rape charges on him. He got locked up for almost 2 years for this and now has to register as a sex offender. Not every situation is the same. More then likely if they would have stayed together he wouldn’t have been charged. So to answer your question< some cases its good to make them register for safety purposes. But for cases when its a child or teenager and they are not sexual predators, I feel its very unfair to mark them for life. This could ruin their whole life and this law needs to be changed.

William asks…

does indonesia have a sex offender registry?

I AM NOT A SEX OFFENDER. i am simply doing research for a paper on international policy and gray areas presented in the laws between countries. i have been looking everywhere but i can not find a sex offender registry for indonesia?

adultdatingexpert answers:

In every country of this world there is a sex offender registry. Most of them it is with the police department.

Paul asks…

Parents, how often do you check your sex offender registry?

I am doing research about the effectiveness of sex offender registries. I am sort of undecided about how effective sex offender registries are at keeping communities safe if people do look at the registry, but sex offender registries obviously can’t do any good if nobody searches them. So, do you search your registry or not?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Megan’s Law did not reduce the number of rearrests for sex offenses, nor did it have any demonstrable effect on the time between when sex offenders were released from prison and the time they were rearrested for any new offense, such as a drug, theft or sex offense.

Zgoba & Bachar; “Sex Offender Registration and Notification: Limited Effects in New Jersey”, U.S. Department of Justice, Office of Justice Programs, National Institute of Justice, April 2009

“Recidivism of Sex Offenders Released From Prison in 1994” showed that 517 (5.3%) of the 9,691 released sex offenders were arrested for committing a sex crime within three years of their release. There were also 262,420 prisoners with no history of conviction for sex crimes released at the same time, and 3,328 (1.3%) of those were arrested for a sex crime within 3 years. 87% of those who were arrested for a sex crime during that three year period were not listed on the registry, and the community could not be warned about them.

Http://bjs.ojp.usdoj.gov/content/pub/pdf/rsorp94.pdf

The California Sex Offender Management Board reported that some 90% of all persons (not just former prisoners) convicted of a sex crime have had no prior conviction for a sex crime. 90% won’t be on the registry yet, no one can warn you about 90% of them.

Http://www.casomb.org/docs/SOMBReport1.pdf

“Results provide no support for the effectiveness of registration and community notification laws in reducing sexual offending by: (a) rapists, (b) child molesters, (c) sexual recidivists, or (d) first-time sex offenders. Analyses also showed that over 95% of all sexual offense arrests were committed by first-time sex offenders, casting doubt on the ability of laws that target repeat offenders to meaningfully reduce sexual offending.”

Sandler, Freeman, Socia; “Does A Watched Pot Boil? A Time-Series Analysis of New York State’s Sex Offender Registration and Notification Law”; Psychology, Public Policy, and Law 2008, Vol. 14, No. 4, 284-302

In 2009, the Broward County Florida Board of County Commissioners, Sexual Offender & Sexual Predator Residence Task Force published its “Final Report”.
“We reviewed available research about the effectiveness of residence restrictions and found no empirical evidence to indicate that these laws achieve their intended goals of preventing abuse, protecting children, or reducing reoffending.”
“In addition to the lack of research supporting the effectiveness of these laws in preventing abuse, there is mounting evidence that these laws diminish housing availability and increase transience, homelessness and instability for offenders.” All known to increase risk for recidivism.

Http://www.royallcreations.com/fatsa/Final_Report_-_Sexual_Offender_Sexual_Residence_Task_Force.pdf

Ok, if these laws prevent just one child from being victimized, then they are worthwhile – right? Prescott and Rockoff, “Do Sex Offender Registration and Notification Laws Affect Criminal Behavior?” A study praised for it’s rigorous standards, reported that while community notification may have resulted in some reduction in first-time offending, sex crime recidivism by convicted sex offenders increased when community notification was implemented. The net effect is, at best, zero.

Http://www.law.virginia.edu/pdf/olin/0708/prescott.pdf

Always ensure the child is closely supervised by someone you can trust, then you don’t have to worry about who is and who isn’t on the registry, the child is protected

And no, I don’t check the registry, there’s a small chance the registrant is really dangerous, there are too many not on it, it’s a waste of time.

Every time I put links in the source box, they get shortened and don’t work. Just copy and paste. Just wondering if you are doing this for a class, can provide more research if needed. Good luck with the research in any case.

Carol asks…

Why doesn’t the public have access to the National Sex Offender Registry?

I strongly think that I have the right to know if there is a sex offender living in the house beside or parallel to me.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Perhaps Canada hasn’t risen to the level of insanity we have here in the US. The Iowa Sex Offender Research Council is a division of the Iowa Criminal and Juvenile Justice Planning. It’s research produced the following:

“A study examining how registry restrictions influence subsequent sex offenses for registered sex offenders in New York (Socia, 2012) found that registry restrictions were not associated with a significant decrease in sex re-offenses by already registered sex offenders. Similarly, Letourneau (2009) found little evidence to suggest that registration status influences sex crime re-offenses.”
“Prescott and Rockoff’s (2011) findings suggested that registration without public notification (such as internet posting) is associated with a decrease in subsequent offending. However, registration with public notification was associated with an increase in subsequent offenses.”

In the New York paper cited above, it was noted that during the period 1984 through 2004, more than 95% of those arrested for a sex crime had no prior convictions for any sex crime. The only people listed on the registry are those convicted of a sex crime so by knowing who has been previously convicted, you miss more than 90% of those who will commit a sex crime. For those you wish to know about, empirical research consistently shows a low probability of re-offense. A US Dept of Justice study of 9,691 convicted sex offenders found that 5.3% were arrested for another sex crime after their release. Of that 9.691, 4,295 were “child molesters” and 3.3% of those re-offended.
Also included in that study were 262,420 who had been convicted of crimes other than sex crimes. Only 1.3% were subsequently arrested for a sex crime. The most often quoted observation from that study is that sex offenders were four times more likely to be arrested for another sex crime (1.3% v 5.3%). What the study also observed, which is omitted by most, is that the 5.3% of sex offenders translates to 517 committing another sex crime, and the 1.3% is actually 3,328 non-sex offenders committing a sex crime That means that by watching those already convicted of a sex crime, very few of which will commit another, you miss 87% of those who will.

Adam Walsh, for whom a federal law requiring all states to publish their registries and add them to a national public registry, is thought to have been taken by a man with no previous history of sex crime convictions. Most recently, Jessica Ridgeway was also abducted, molested and murdered by a man with no priors. Jaycee Dugard was taken by a registered sex offender but checking the registry would not have revealed him unless Jaycee’s parents were looking for offenders who lived 140 miles away.

The point is that by watching for offenders, you miss too many to call that protecting your child. By watching your child closely, you miss no one.

By closely, I refer to Jaycee Dugard. Her step-father was watching her walk to her school bus stop, close enough to hear her scream but not to get the license plate of the car.

Knowing where convicted sex offenders are is effectively useless. Staying close to your child or making sure they are closely supervised by someone you trust is protecting them from all who would harm them. And the only way.

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Your Questions About Adult Adhd

Maria asks…

How can I express my concerns for ADHD treatment, without him thinking I’m drug seeking?

I know how abused ADHD medications are. Growing up many classmates illegally took it. I’ve been having such severe problems and thought I could do therapy. In this therapy session my counselor said she firmly believes I have Adult ADHD and we went through everything I am feeling and how it relates to ADHD. It makes so much sense. I am now seeing a psychiatrist to follow up on this Monday. She also said to let him know that she will readily forward my paperwork from her office explaining why I need to be treated for ADHD. I’m so excited yet so nervous because I know how many people probably go seeking ADHD medicine for stupid reasons. I have no history of drug abuse and am otherwise healthy. How can I express my desire to try this medicine for my benefit without him believing I am trying to abuse them? Will my counselors recomendation help at all?
My problem is I have no insurance and make only $650 a month. I can only afford very generic medicine, which happens to be stimulants (as I’ve reasearched). Stratterra does not have generic. They do offer 1 month free, but after that I couldn’t keep up. This is why I’m scared he won’t help me, as I have no choice but to take stimulants. And I mean “drug seeking” as in wanting these pills for bad reasons.

adultdatingexpert answers:

But you are drug seeking, no? Maybe I misunderstood.

Tell the psychiatrist your concerns about amphetamine abuse, and ask that you be started on a regimen of Strattera. It is an effective ADHD medicine. It is not speed.

James asks…

types of medication for adults with adhd without cardiovascular side effects?

What types of medication for adults with ADHD do not have cardiovascular side effects? I have a hole in my heart & am finding all the meds have major warning signs for those with heart problems. I need another alternative! Please help!

adultdatingexpert answers:

Medicines are likely to have side-effects. I’m sticking with supplements. I Need To Focus (Solomon & Samson) is a good one; I liked how it helped me in just a few days.

John asks…

What should you do If a person is suffering from this kind of mental illness?

What to do If a person is suffering from all of this illness: adult ADHD, ADD, Schizoprenia, Dementia, and OCD. What kind of solution are needed?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Compassion is needed. If they have disease get it treated. Take meds. Get a second opinion. Pray to God for a relationship with Jesus Christ and receive God’s love! Follow Jesus Christ. Read a Bible. Attend Bible believing gospel Church.

Donald asks…

Why is it taking me so long to graduate college?

I’m in my mid 20′s. I started college in 2000 as a CS major. I cruised along making the Deans list several times. After 2 years I was set to graduate a year early untill I was stricken with a bout of depression and had to move back home after a dissasterous 3rd year. I tried to complete my degree at a university at home but found out I HATE programing and switched to physics. The later part of my life I’ve come to suspect I have adult ADHD but not too sure, just a suspicion on my study habits (I NEED 5 hours to get 1 hour of work done when I’m able to do this i do GREAT, if not i fail, WAY to easly distracted). Well I’m going on my 8th year and its getting more depressing and ALOT harder to concentrate. I’m in monster debt and quiting is no longer an option, nor is the military because I’ll be 26 soon. Am I just an idiot? Still have a 3.0 GPA, just can’t do anything right.

adultdatingexpert answers:

First of all–stop being so hard on yourself. You have a great GPA. You should be proud of yourself for being able to do so well in challenging classes with a learning disability. You have what it takes–don’t give up–and it will pay off for you eventually.

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