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Your Questions About Sex And The City 2

David asks…

link to watch Sex and the City 2 movie in ENGLISH?

Please help me find a link to watch this movie online. I found couple links but they were in russian and french i think. Please only links that work. Thanks

adultdatingexpert answers:

You can watch Sex and the City 2 online for free from this site:

Donald asks…

where can i watch sex and the city 2 online??

adultdatingexpert answers:

You can watch Sex and the City 2 online for free from this site:

Carol asks…

Would it be weird to watch Sex and the City 2 alone?

All right, I am a 21 year old male and an amateur film critic and as such I sometimes have to watch films that I normally would not watch (wouldn’t be a critic if I only watched movies that I liked, I need to be able to articulate why I don’t like certain films) and Sex and the City 2 is this weekend. I’ll also be checking out Prince of Persia. In any case, I can’t seem to find any female friends to go with me, of course my list of close female friends is pretty small (the others are merely acquaintances, I hardly see them, if ever) so I might have to go it alone. I am not gay, but even if I was, my sexual orientation is irrelevant to reviewing films. I’m just wondering if I might get called out if I see it alone.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Well i’m pretty sure it’s weird for anyone to see Sex and the City 2, alone or with people
But i think it wouldn’t be bad for you at all, as long as you go to a theatre that’s not where a lot of people you know go to.
Plus if anyone calls you out,you have an excuse; your an amateur film critic

Mark asks…

who watched sex and the city 2 ?

i dont think ill be able to watch it untill it comes out in dvd,(going on vacation)

but if you did see it, how was it. Everyone says its really bad ?

adultdatingexpert answers:

I loved it, but then again, I’m a die hard Sex in the City fan.

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Your Questions About Adults

James asks…

best stethoscope for adults and children?

whats the best stethoscope for adults and pediatrics/children

adultdatingexpert answers:

I used this one over 25 years.

Littmann® Classic II S.E.

Here is a site with many stethoscopes for various special applications.


This particular model Littmann was one of the best buys I made: the acoustics are excellent for adult and child and it lasted over 25 years, and was finally vandalized to destroy the connection to the bell by unknown parties in a hotel.

The reason I recommend it without reservation is the quality of the sound and durability, simplicity.

I have had a number of other stethoscopes over the years, purchased thinking it must offer something better or as gifts, every model was inferior to the overall excellence when you see both adults and children.

There is only one area that might warrant the pediatric head: straight neonatal medicine, through I have used this model on hundreds of new born infants with good results and no limitations.

The longer tubing to the bell provides both ease of use and on occasion was important to reach a patient in an emergency situation outside a clinical setting.

I intend to replace the damaged one with the same model.
If there is a better all around adult and child stethoscope out there, I have not found it. Twenty five years use for this coupled with the quality of sound cannot be beat.

Mandy asks…

Are adult stem cells being used today?

Is ADULT stem cell research legalized?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Yes, adult stem cells are being used today and the research is legal.

Here’s the difference between embryonic and adult stem cells.

Embryonic stem cells come from the blastula or very early embryo. If that embryo was left to develop, it would become a baby.

Adult stem cells are present in our bone marrow and even babies have adult stem cells, it is the term given to them after birth.

Some clinics harvest adult stem cells from a person’s bone marrow, collect them, then re-inject them. Some researchers have worked with stem cells from fat and other tissues, while others have worked out how to assist the natural release of adult stem cells from our bone marrow.

Michael asks…

how do get Adult chat?

there used to be a sub catagory under Romance… that was Adult…. gay chat… yahoo deleeted my old profile and when I set up another one… it was gone

adultdatingexpert answers:

For great adult chat, go here: – Explicit adult chat forum
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Charles asks…

adult adopting another adult in Wisconsin?

I am 23 and live in Wisconsin. A while back I found the paperwork necessary for adult adoption in WI but I have since lost track of my printed paperwork and I can no longer find it online. I was raised by my mother and her husband, my step-father. However, they did not get married until just 2 years ago once I was already an adult. He told me he would adopt me and allow me to change my last name to his (I have no relationship with my biological father anymore, he’s a terrible person). Can anyone help me figure out where I can find any information on adult adoption in Wisconsin. I’m sick of having a legal relationship with, and sharing the name of a person I despise and have no connection to. Thanks
I can find the laws that show that any adult can be adopted by another in the state of WI if the adopting party is a resident of th state and has consent of the adoptee and the spouse of the adoptor. But my search hits a deadend when I try tracking down forms or anything to file to get the ball rolling…

adultdatingexpert answers:

Hi, Expert!

You can get the forms you need from the Probate Court in your county. Just call the clerk of court and they will be able to assist you. Or you can check with a probate lawyer.

You might also find the forms you need on one of these sites: (has links to WI probate court forms including petition for adult adoption)

(click on the adoption bar and select “adult adoption”);jsessionid=3B375ABA81BEF805C19AF43ED270D852.render1

(Wisconsin Court System main website with links and printable forms)

Good luck! I hope you find everything you need! :)

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Your Questions About Sexy And I Know It Lyrics

George asks…

What song is this please hurry nicki minaj or rihanna or gaga think ?

Oh oh oh come fill my glass up a little more
It‘s getting hotter and hotter
Sexy and hotter to shut it down. :p

adultdatingexpert answers:

Nicki Minaj – Pound the alarm.

The correct lyrics are:-
“Oh, oh, oh come fill my glass up a little more
We ’bout to get up, and burn this floor
You know we getting hotter, and hotter
Sexy and hotter, let’s shut it down.”

John asks…

why do people only think lyrics matter in rap?

i dont think people know hip hop too well. 2 pac wasnt lyrically gifted in the slightest and yet hes considered on of the greats by almost everyone. if lyrics were all that mattered lupe would be considered one of the greatest of all time. they dont seem to account beats, hook, mic presence, flow, and other things. they also think ignorant lyrics, no matter how clever, are good at all. your thoughts?

adultdatingexpert answers:

A lot of people do NOT understand the concepts and true elements of Hip-Hop culture indeed. Also, I agree that 2pac was not exactly lyrically gifted in a tongue twisting manner, however it’s not that he wasn’t lyrically gifted, he was indeed, just in a different way. Example:

“Follow me and tell me if you feel me/I think niggaz is tryna kill me/picturing pistols,spitting hollow points till they drill me/keeping it real…”

You see how how his first bar coincides with with his opening statement? Rap is very strategic and allows room for various types of creative talent. It’s called Word play, doesn’t have to rhyme or be metaphoric, your lyrics can consist of flowing and connecting bars. Notorious big was excellent at this which is why he was often compared to Tupac, although they are like night and day, there lyrical balance is very similar. Its a technical similarity.

So in a sense he was lyrical, just in a different form.

Lupe Fiasco has an awesome talent in metaphoric lyrics, he also has a great vocabulary and diction format that he always provides, the same can be said about Nas.

Beats; at one point all Hip-Hop consisted of was beats! Beats and Dj’s. The Dj’s started shouting over there beats at party’s in order to hype the crowd and this led to the format and inspiration of rap derived from “The Dirty Dozens Game”….it has so many ways it was formed, this is just one avenue of it.

A dope beat is usually constructed by a producer, so that’s their credit, not the rappers. Swizz Beats, Timbaland, and Dr. Dre are some great well know producers and they are recognized for their beats. A rapper will request a well known producer a lot of the times and even if their rhymes are wack, guess what? They still made a hit because they had a banging beat and a dope hook.

Mic presence, flow and other things must come from the actual rapper, so that’s what they are accounted for, but as far as the beat, no, same for the hook, because sometimes the hook is provided as well and the rapper will write 16 bars for 2 verses sometimes 3 .

Ignorant lyrics + dope beat+ dope hook = HIT SINGLE!

Your average and respective listener looses patience and the hook or chorus is the most play in a song, a lot of the times the lyrics are not even focused on, just the beat and hook.

So basically, rap can be lyrical or none lyrical, valuable content or redundant content, in any event rap is a vital and fresh genre of music and it constantly and consistently has various of cycles and changes. Many forms and moods of life, happy, sad, blah, bored, sexy, joyful etc…

There is a rap track for every occasion, some will make us laugh, sing-a-long, think, dance, cry etc…

So, in a sense, according to the masses and music industry, lyrics don’t matter! It’s the producer you have on the track and the hook you construct along with the swagger and presence of a rapper. Personally I love lyrical rap but I love the stuff that’s fun too!

-Hip-Hop @ its finest

Richard asks…

What other words are there to compliment boys instead of calling them handsome?

My boyfriend always tells me that I‘m beautiful and everything, and I do compliment him back. I‘ve told him he’s handsome, but i don’t really like that word, and neither does he. I tell him he’s attractive, cute, adorable, but is there another word that’s like handsome? I wouldn’t want to call him “gorgeous” either, because that sounds weird to me lol. What other words are there that I can use instead of handsome? besides, hot and sexy, because those words aren’t as meaningful

adultdatingexpert answers:

I think you may be worrying too much about the words. Often it’s not so much the words but how you say something.

One strategy is to pick out individual things you like about how he looks and point those out to him. Maybe you like his chin or the way his back looks or whatever. Just think what about him is manly and something that you like.

If he says you’re beautiful and you want to be really lavish on physical praise, you could say “I couldn’t hold a candle to you”. But that’s pretty extreme.

You could just say “you’re lovely/wonderful/amazing”. Those do work if you really mean them in that moment.

Maybe handsome is best suited to certain situations. Like if he has a suit on or just looks particularly dashing in some outfit. In that case “You look really handsome” isn’t that bad.

There really aren’t good “words” for masculine beauty. There’s comely, dashing, hunky, fine, sharp, smart, attractive, good-looking, fetching etc.

But really, just a heartfelt “You look really good” is better than messing around with odd words that aren’t what you want anyway. It’s the sparkle in it that sort of counts. And the best way to get that is to go with what you really like about him and use that as your guide on what to say.

Sometimes “cute” can be weird for a guy and you don’t always feel complimented if a girl says “Oh you’re so cute”. But I do remember once feeling slightly bowled over by a girl just telling me “You’re really cute” when I passed her on the street. It was just the way she said it like she meant it.

Good luck! Don’t worry too much about finding “meaningful” words. Almost anything will do. It’s how you say it and how you frame it. “Oh. He’s so cute” VS “You’re really cute” just makes all the difference.

Some black girls are really good at complimenting guys’ looks in funny and creative ways. If you’re so inclined, you could even get your hands on a novel called “Their Eyes Were Watching God”. It’s by Zora Neale Hurston. I don’t remember anything specific now, but she was really good at describing men in general and also what’s appealing about them.

It might be too cheesy for you, though.

This is actually an old blues lyric, but it has something of the kind of thing I mean:

I know a boy who is sky-soft brown
The dirt leaps for joy when his feet touch the ground.
His strut is a peacock. His eye is burning brass.
His smile is sorghum syrup drippin’ slow-sweet to the last.
I know a boy who is sky-soft brown.
I know a boy who is sky-soft brown.

Robert asks…

why do people blame hip hop for bad behavior?

Hip hop artists don’t sing about the “nicest” things, however, it can not be blamed for someone committing a crime, acting ignorant, etc. No one forced them to listen to it. Remember everyone needs to take responsibility for their own actions. Rappers/hip hop artists get paid for their music. They will keep making music whether you like it or not. It‘s like blaming R&B for unwanted pregnancies because R&B songs contain “sexylyrics.
Those children must be very stupid to look up to celebrities as role models. I never had or will.

adultdatingexpert answers:

They don’t want to take the blame or see that where they may live,what friends the kids hang out with , and the way parents or teachers or just the public etc,etc are treating the teens or how some have grown up. (The way of the streets and society) it started way back.

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Your Questions About Adult Halloween Costume

Richard asks…

What was the funniest Halloween costume?

Have you see a funny Halloween costume?

Yesterday I took my granddaughter to children’s story time at the public library. Several of the preschool age kids wore their Halloween costumes and one little girl was dressed up as an elephant. It was a darling costume but the elephant’s nice fat 8″ trunk was sticking straight up on the top of her head! Poor baby. Good thing her mother didn’t dress her up as a Pink Elephant. That would have received an Adults Only Rating at the costume store. I giggled every time I looked her way.

adultdatingexpert answers:

A mate of mine dressed up as ‘shrink wrap man’ one year for halloween. He wore nothing but cling-film and a pair of undies. The costume was hilarious and the looks he got were priceless!

Lisa asks…

Anyone know of any adult Halloween costume contests going on in Kasas city this year?

I want to know if anyone knows of costume contests is KC. Maybe Power and Light District,Wesport, Martini corner, the plaza. If you know could you please put down where and what time it starts at.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Not sure about Kansas. Here are some Halloween Contests and Competitons. Let me know if it helps you.

James asks…

How to make this sailor girl halloween costume?

I want to go as a sailor girl for halloween. The outfits on ebay are so pricey, I was planning on doing it myself with a white dress, some ribbon etc… How would I go about making this? Where could I get the dress from? And are there any cheap-ish sailor girl halloween costumes. I usually fit into a size 11-12 childrens, but womens size 4 sometimes fits me. I’m small and petite that’s why.
Charly XxxX

adultdatingexpert answers:

If you’re looking for something a bit sexy, priced in the $40-$50 range, go to:

Or for something a bit more innocent, priced a little lower, go to:

My own personal preference is the first site, the Adult Wow Matey! Sexy Sailor Costume $59.99 ;)

Ken asks…

How do I find a sexy halloween costume for my 34GG bra size? I am frustrated because I can’t find any!?

I have become annoyed with Halloween costume shopping. I would like to look sexy but I have very large dense breasts that make it difficult to find ANY sexy costumes anywhere. I am around a size 10 pant size so I am not plus size. My measurements are 41-32-40. Any help would be much appreciated!

adultdatingexpert answers:

Um okay i may have few costumes may fit you ?

Http:// hope you like one these

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Your Questions About Sexting

Sandy asks…

What is Sexting????????????????????

I hear alot about it but i dont really know what it is. Help?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sexting is using texting but really just doing likr phone sex (dirty things) it can also be sending provacative pictures of ones body to another.

Laura asks…


i have this friend and he got in trouble my the cops send this girl a text asking if she fingered herself. So anyhow me and my guy friends joke around and like say nasty things like that but i dont get the meaning on sexting. Is is sending a nude picture or any type of bad picture or can it be like what my friend sent? Basically i want to know if i’m going to get in trouble by sending text messages that say dirty things?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sexting is when you send sex-related pictures or messages via text. It can be revealing pictures, or completely nude. It can be jokes about sex, or having “phone sex.” Unless someone turns you in or your text is somehow intercepted, you can’t technically get in trouble. However, it’s not a good idea to send “sexts” because it can be very offensive to some people, and you never know where it may end up. A lot of people get in trouble because they send nude pictures to their boyfriend/girlfriend, who then sends it to their friends. Even as a joke, sexting can get you into trouble.

Nancy asks…

What is classified as sexting?

Is it like sending pictures, or talking about it? Please go into detail.. Thank you!

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sexting is the act of sending sexually explicit messages or photographs, primarily between mobile phones. The term was first popularized in early 21st century, and is a portmanteau of sex and texting, where the latter is meant in the wide sense of sending a text possibly with images

Ken asks…

What really is sexting?

Me and my well somewhat bf not sure if he is or not talk about sex and making out and stuff?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sexting is mostly sexy texting, but now it’s considered anything with sexual content.

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Your Questions About Adult Acne

Jenny asks…

Does Proactive for adult acne work?

I’m 29 years old and breaking out on my face (sides of face, forehead and under the chin especially) which I’m assuming is adult acne. I’m using Proactive but it seems to be making it worse. Anyone have personal experience? Recommend products?

adultdatingexpert answers:

i tried it and i had adult acne this is the only thing that worked for me
You should give tea tree oil a shot. I had mild acne for a while and even tho I washed my face every night I still had acne. So I used tea tree oil and within a week my acne was pretty much gone except for a few spots here and there, which will fade soon too.
Tea tree oil can be used for any skin type even if you have very sensitive skin. And in that case I would dilute the oil with either water or aloe vera gel, which you can get at any drug store.
There are only two downsides to tea tree oil and that is that the smell is pretty strong, and it can dry out your face a little, which can be taken care of by using a moisturizer.
The oil can be found in any drugstore/grocery store/health store in the same isle as the finger nail polish remover for about $6. There are many different kinds but you can get whatever brand as long as it says 100% tea tree oil.
I would recommend putting it on at night before you go to sleep.
If you have any more questions there are many websites about this product, or feel free to ask me.

Betty asks…

Best solutions to adult acne?

i’ve had acne through adolesence and now into my twenties. it seems to come and go from time to time. i’ve noticed in the summer it clears up quite a bit, but never disappears completely.

i’m now 26 and its time to get rid of it. people always used to say – it will clear up by your early twenties, but it never has. i’ve tried almost everything; eating certain foods, not eating certain foods (chocolate, cheese – all myths by the way!!), drinking lots of water, not drinking certain drinks (coca-cola). i’ve washed daily with just warm water, soap, shower gel. i’ve used clearasil and numerous other similar branded products – nothing works!! tried using cremes (the last one i used contained hydrocritisine {i think this was the spelling!} which is usually used for rashes!!)

surely there is something that will clear it up?? we can put man on the moon and make planes that weigh 100′s of tonnes fly through the air – surely there is a tried and tested product to get rid of adult acne?

i havent been back to my GP for years (please don’t just answer saying – “go to your doctor” or a dermatologist).
Please – someone give me something to try…….. natural or man-made.


adultdatingexpert answers:

The best way to get rid of acne is to go see a dermatologist. They will probably prescribe accutane for you. I’m not sure what you’ve heard, If its dangerous etc, but it is the only product on the market proven to work. Like every medication it has its side effects etc, but it really works. I had terrible acne on my back, chest, and face. After 2 months, I no longer get pimples, and all of my old ones are gone, I just have a bit of scaring still on my face and back which get better and fainter all the time. Mederma is a great product for fading scars too and can be found at any pharmacy/drugstore.

Of course, some parents don’t think it’s best to take their kids to a dermatologist and you have to respect their wishes. One thing I found that worked really great for me just at home using simple products was this daily routine:
1. Take a shower when you wake up in the morning and make sure to wash your face, chest, back and any other acne trouble spots with a mild bar soap. (I would recommend cetaphil, you can buy it at any drug store, cvs, etc. It costs about $5) Make sure to keep your hair clean, and wash the rest of you too.
2. When you get home from school remove all make-up. No one is going to see you except you’re family.
3. Every afternoon when you’re done homework, put on running shoes, and play clothes, and get active. 20 minutes on a tredmill, at the gym, or outside playing your favorite sport will actually help. Make sure you work hard enough to sweat. Sweating is good.
4. When you come back from getting some fresh air, go take a shower. Sweating releases all the oil in your pores, along with any dirt. But if you don’t clean it off, it will get stuck right back in the pores, causing more acne. Make sure to run hot water on your skin which opens the pores even more before scrubbing. Then when done run cold water all over your body for a minute, to close the pores back up. You don’t have to wash your hair both 2 times a day, try just keeping it up until the next morning.

Trust me in a week you will definitely see result for this, and its simple, plus a little exercise and fresh air never hurt anyone!

Ruth asks…

how can i cure adult acne?

i am 35 and have a small rash on my cheek its been there ages i’ve tried antibiotics which did nothing my doc says its adult acne im not so sure, any ideas welcome

adultdatingexpert answers:

Your doctor has no clue. Adult acne? What is that? It’s a doctor giving a name to something he has no clue as to what is causing it. You need a new doctor! Acne is a result of several things. 1st, your skin acts like a third kidney and the toxins in your body are coming out through the skin as acne. Research has shown that acne is caused from bacteria/fungus living in the intestine. You have to treat acne from the inside out. Medical doctors are equipped to tell you what’s wrong, but when it comes to fixing degenerative types of things, they have NO clue. Antibiotics are their best answer, but this just complicates the problem. Sometimes they get lucky and it gives a temporary fix, but then you have a whole set of other issues because the antibiotics kill the good flora that can help keep your intestines clean. It’s possible that some biofilms can encapsulate the bacteria, virus, or fungus that is causing the acne toxins and generally, the kidneys are overwhelmed and they come out in your skin. These biofilms are like protective sacs made of polysaccarides that won’t allow the macrophages to get to the bad guys. Bad oils like, SOYBEAN, COTTONSEED, CANOLA (actually called rape weed oil – Canadian Oil – even insects won’t eat this stuff), all hydrogenated oils (like found in most fried foods) contribute heavily to the problem. Avoid them at all costs. Many fast food places are bragging they use Vegetable Oils (like Canola, Soybean, Cottonseed) like it is a good thing. Unbelievable! Highly probable that these are genetically engineered, hydrogenated, badly processed (cheap) and very high in Inflamatory Omega 6 fatty acids! If they used a quality olive oil (more expensive for them) real butter (that is a monosaccaride that is good for you, instead of the hydrogenated oil called margarine). Increase your omega 3 fatty acids in your diet by eating Grass Fed Beef (not grain fed commercial garbage) wild fish (not the farmed fish that contain a lot of fat containing toxins & antibiotics used to keep them alive in their toxic environment), take a quality probiotic (lots of this) and foods that feed the good bacteria like kiefer milk (lactose intolerant people can drink this O.K.), sauerkraut, yogurt, etc. Eliminate all sodas and foods with sugars in them. Sodas lower your internal pH and make a haven for bacteria to live. Eliminate all SOY products, these are toxic to the body and reduce the body’s ability to absorb the minerals you need.

The next most important thing is to fix your digestive issue. Take Betaine HCL + a tomato activator after every meal (or if not eating, just take it anyway 3 – 5 times per day). This eliminates the so called “acid indigestion” and creates an environment that helps get rid of the biofilm issue and you will notice your bowel movements will be so much better and more regular because you will now be digesting the food, not creating toxins. I believe it will also ad years to your life because it re-methylates cells as well. Go to, they have a good quality one. Also, a good digestive enzyme after each meal is a must. Another suggestion is to eat foods with fresh garlic.

Good luck.

Mary asks…

What are some products that are effective for adult acne?

Please don’t mention Proactiv, because that didn’t do anything but take my money!

adultdatingexpert answers:

This condition in adults can have a number of causes. Some people naturally produce more oil in their faces, and therefore are more likely to suffer from acne problems. Poor sanitation sometimes plays a role, as do bacterial problems in some people. Rosacea is a condition confused with common acne in older people. This condition is frequently referred to as a form of acne. Rosacea causes reddening and swelling of the face, and other complications.

Although the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) regulates what drugs are marketed to the public and whether the drugs are safe for use, every person’s skin is different and may react differently to every product. If you suffer from skin dryness, itchiness, flakiness or irritation, consider switching to a medication with a lower concentration of active ingredient. Different inactive ingredients can also affect a medication’s effectiveness. When consulting a medication label, be sure it is “noncomedogenic” which means it has been tested and proven to not clog pores.

I had developed adult acne (had none throughout puberty) and found that it was because I was wearing the wrong make-up and too much of it. My skin could not breathe. I opted to invest in microdermabrasion and a glycolic peel. It made a world of difference after one session, but if you don’t want to do something costly, try Noredol Skin Care Gel is a newly patented cosmetic that reduces redness, blemishes and breakouts in skin affected by rosacea or acne. It also soothes and moisturizes the skin without irritation. All of this is possible with one convenient and innovative product. It is very good. You can purchase at

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Your Questions About Sex Offenders

Chris asks…

Where can I get information about the laws regarding sex offenders applicable to the area that I live?

I live in Darke county, Ohio. I wanna know what it is legal and what it is illegal for sex offenders to do, and I wanna know where I can the information at.
Those websites just list where sex offenders are at. It doesn’t list the laws which sex offenders must follow. I do know they are not allowed to live within 1,000 feet of a school. What other restrictions must a registered sex offender follow? I want a web site that will give me this information.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sex offender registry is through your state’s web site..research ‘sex offender’..per state laws..

Maria asks…

What is a school’s responsibility regarding a parent who is a sex offender?

What is the school’s responsibility when it disc overs that a parent at the school is a registered sex offender? Shouldn’t the school notify parents, particularly when playdates, birthday parties and other events are going out where people are unaware that this male parent is a registered sex offender?
This is a real sex offender situation in which a middle aged man attempted to meet a 13 year old girl at a hotel (before being arrested). It is not my attempt to “destroy” anyone but actions do have consequences, otherwise this person would not be REQUIRED to be on a registry for 20 years.

adultdatingexpert answers:

To Be Honest with you
I am quite surprised that a school district even hired a registered sex offender.I am a parent and feeling a bit uptight as well.
Please go and ask the Superintendent of that school district and bring it to their attention.
Secondly, if you are a student, please inform your parents,
Write down on paper what you discovered and bring it to the proper authorities in the school district.
Hope this helps soon~
yours truly

Carol asks…

What is it like to arrest a sex offender?

I am an aspiring police officer, and one of the many draws for me is the feeling of putting a sex offender in handcuffs and the back of the cruiser. Are there any officers that have experienced this?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Well this all depends on your opinions of a sex offender. I am not an officer of the law, but i know that a lot of people have different views of sex offenders, most of them being bad. Sex offenders are still humans that made a mistake just like the rest of the people make mistakes in the world…. Unfortunately for them, they made a horrible mistake and because of it, they have to pay horrible consequences. If i were an officer, arresting a sex offender would feel no different from arresting someone for a suspended license… As an officer of the law, you should try not to hold bias against any suspected criminal.

Donald asks…

What website to find sex offender case details?

I checked the Illinois Sex Offender Database and found a criminal in my neighborhood. But the description is very vague… Where can I find details of what the guy actually did?

adultdatingexpert answers:

The Illinois Sex Offender Registry allows you to search for sex offenders by name, city, county, or type of offender. You can also map offenders. Search results provide offender name, address, aliases, status (compliant, non-compliant, or unknown location) and photos. It also lists crime information, such as actual crimes committed (aggravated criminal sexual assault, failure to report, etc.) age of victim, age of offender at time of offense, and county of conviction. You may also be able to find criminal history for sex offenders on parole or mandatory supervised release through the Illinois Department of Corrections.

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Your Questions About Adulthood

Daniel asks…

What is the reason that some people tend to retain juvenile behaviors even once they reach adulthood?

What social and political circumstances have caused people to retain childish behaviors into adulthood, basically excessive immaturity?

adultdatingexpert answers:

I would love to know the real answer to your question. Perhaps they feel that if they behave like a juvenile they won’t be held responsible for their actions. If you watch TV that is pretty much all you see. Grown-ups acting like they are in junior high school. I don’t get it. Lack of education? Who knows. Sorry that I didn’t answer your question

Lisa asks…

Can a 14 year old boy grow another 13cm by the time he reaches his adulthood?

I turned 14 years old about 3 months ago and currently at the height of 165cm. I was wondering if I could grow another 13cm by the time I reach my adulthood or whenever. I really wanna be at least 178cm.

Serious answers please.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Of course you could and probably will,but it depends on your genes and a good way to tell is how tall your dad is or going to the doctors and getting them to measure how tall you will be.

Mary asks…

When will the age of legal adulthood be raised?

I think it should be 25 thats when the prefrontal cortex is at an adult level and I feel society will be better and if we start adulthood at an appropiate age and drinking alcohol,voting,and fighting in war.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sorry, not going to happen. Legal adulthood means a lot more than thinking clearly – it also means things like ‘moving out of the house and getting a job’ and no parent want kids to be kids until age 25.

John asks…

How does Piaget’s formal operation stage apply to young and middle adulthood?

Can’t find any of this in my text for Psychology 108 on the chapters for young adulthood and middle adulthood.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Well, that’s because Piaget’s developmental stages take place during childhood.

I have never seen any discussion of their impact later in life.

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Your Questions About Sex And The City Quotes

Donna asks…

If leviticus is part of the old testament then why do SOME christians use it to condemn gay people?

It seems to me that if it is old law then you have to disregard it. There are a ton of silly rules in that book of the bible. If you have to disregard it then why not disregard the tidbit about gays. Is there a book in the new testament that says it’s wrong? If there is why not just use that?

adultdatingexpert answers:

As you may know Biblical ignorance is a epidemic in the United States.
Dr Peter Gomes wrote “The Good Book” through his research found that 38% of the American Christians polled believed that the Old Testament part of the Bible was written after the death of Christ.
10% thought that Joan of Arc was Noah’s wife. Many even thought that the epistles were the wives of the apostles. ((go figure))
It is to no wonder how MOST can take so many verses out of context solely to condemn homosexuals. I’ve even had the story of Sodom and Gomorrah regurgitated to me in the context that God destroyed the entire city because of all the gays – they refer to it as the New Orleans of the times. I’ve yet to find that in the Bible though, when I read the story, I read that God destroyed the city because not one in the city was righteous. Of course they found Lot and his wife, who were spared, until she disobeyed and looked back at the city, she turned into a pillar of salt – Lot’s wife, so she was straight right ? And all this time I was taught that it was a Gay City, being destroyed for it gayness.
“Even the devil can cite scripture” – William Shakespeare

How about these verse ((for the christians against gays))

Deuteronomy 22:13-21 – if it is discovered that a bride is not a virgin, the bible says that she should be executed by stoning immediately

Deuteronomy 22:22 – if a married person has sex with another’s spouse, bible says that BOTH adulterers be stoned to death

Mark 10:1-12 – Divorce is strictly forbidden in both testaments, as is remarriage of ANYONE who has been divorced ((thats about half of EVERY congregation))

Leviticus 18:29 – the bible forbids married couples to have sex during a woman’s period, if they disobey BOTH shall be executed

Mark 12:18-27 – if a man dies childless ((this is God’s Law I’m quoting, NOT Man’s Law)) his widow is ordered by biblical law to have sex with ALL of his brothers until she finally bears he dead husband an heir

Now for the Gays: Lev 18:26 & Lev 20:13 – Leviticus is a holiness code written 3,000 yrs ago, the code includes many outdated sexual acts that are prohibited, just like the ones above for straight couples.
It also states in Lev that it is prohibited to get a round haircaut ((look it up its there)) no tatoos, no working on the sabbath ((how many actually keep this one)), no wearing garments of MIXED fabrics ((ridiculous huh)) no eating of pork or shellfish, only the jews and muslims still practice this law, not convenient enough for christians to follow)) and here my personal favorite ((as Dave Letterman would say)) and the NUMBER ONE forbidden sin in Lev IS
Do NOT play with the skin of a pig – yeah Christians BAN any and all football participation, because they Bible says so
Romans 1:26-27 says about natural use for unnatural – this is an easy one … See science and doctors still have many controversy explanations as to why one BECOMES gay – they say we choose it – like any human being would make a decision to be a part of something that will get you mocked, beaten and yes, even killed – see all the straight people lining up at our doors waiting to switch sides so they too can be mocked, denied equal rights and be beaten and/or murdered – yeah we choose it alright
Some use the argument that all gays were abused as children and that caused some mental breakdown making them gay – idiots
I’m gay .. I was never abused, beaten or raped, as soon as I hit puberty I began to feel the attraction for women, of course in those days “coming out” was NOT IN, like today’s times.
So for gays that bible verse in romans is telling us that it would be a sin for us to leave our natural state and lie ((or bed down)) one of the opposite sex, because this would be very unnatural for us.

Remember christians – sin is sin, judge NOT lest ye shall be judged
You wear mixed fabrics, I know for a fact that you do – most all are made now with a “blend” so according to the Bible you are no better than the homosexual – because sin is sin, there is no one graver than the other … Except the unforgivable ((according to the Bible)) which is blaspheming the Holy Spirit

Steven asks…

Is fornication a physical reaction of human nature, or is it a fire and brimstone sin?

There is reference to this in the Bible, however, there is also an absence of depth when it comes to
sexuality. I am not trying to find spiritual loopholes in order to commit sinful acts, but Jesus Christ’s
teen and young adult chapter is conspicuously missing from the text. Was he struggling with this as
well, and how did he cope?

adultdatingexpert answers:

For sure, today is a very very difficult time for the young. It seems that in times gone by, the problem was not quite as bad. The reasons for this difference are somewhat obvious. Most cities were small, the education system not the same, parental involvement perhaps 99%, thus supervision of the young teenagers was high.

The parents also initiated in many cases who should marry (clearly personal input was permitted) and when, things were quite organized for the young to join society as functioning adults married off with their newly awakened needs quite bundled and packaged in a protective cocoon which was released correctly by the family heads into newly timely marriages.

Today’s freedom has causes chaos to ascend in schools, in the arrangement of marriages, in the introduction to possible mates – even young Christian are hard pushed to keep this chaos at bay. In my own case, a curious thing happened that to me shows how protected we may be. My elders and the congregation neglected something happening to me, around me blatantly – they were blind to the young in their midst and what some were doing.

I felt pushed and stupefied that no one took notice. Finally, I said, “What the hell! I have been trying real hard to be a good boy, but I am an idiot. I am going to take advantage since nobody cares.” That moment was the last when facing this temptation, a young fellow Christian female who was misbehaving, that I saw her for ca 30-40 years. She was suddenly, without warning, to her, to me, removed to a different continent. Non Christians here will scoff, but to me this was God, his Christ, in action protecting me from sin.

Quote: is it fire and brimstone sin.

Hard to say. Some because of falling into sin catch AIDS or other similarly nigh impossible to cure diseases. Others, fall away from the Christian way and never repent but become sex addicts simply living for the satisfying of their fleshly impulses having died to Christ. Others again, realize the error of their ways and come to their senses later in life, perhaps with one or two kids to take care of single handed. That is probably an extremely common outcome and so very hard on the mother and the children in this unforgiving world.

Those who come to their senses may receive forgiveness. But, it means a turning away from sin.

Betty asks…

What does this quote mean from Sex in the City ?

“Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past, stop planning the future, stop figuring out precisely how we feel, stop deciding exactly what we want, and just see what happens.”

adultdatingexpert answers:

It means we should stop wasting our energy in over-thinking everything and just go with the flow! I think this is about control and letting it go.

William asks…

What are some funny/incredibly sad quotes?

Not even just that. Any quote that is worthy to put on my bedroom wall, my hand or that I can think of and smile, frown, even shed a tear. Anything like line from your favorite movie of the 80′s to a qoute from Harry Potter. :) thanks!

adultdatingexpert answers:


“Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. THAT’S relativity.” – Albert Einstein

“I don’t have a photograph, but you can have my footprints. They’re upstairs in my socks.” – Groucho Marx

“If the person you are talking to doesn’t appear to be listening, be patient. It may simply be that he has a small piece of fluff in his ear.” – Winnie the Pooh

“You can’t blame gravity for falling in love.” – Albert Einstein

“Love is like racing across the frozen tundra on a snowmobile which flips over, trapping you underneath. At night, the ice-weasels come.” – Matt Groening

“I blame my mother for my poor sex life. All she told me was ‘the man goes on top and the woman underneath.’ For three years my husband and I slept in bunk beds.” – Joan Rivers

“I am so clever that sometimes I don’t understand a single word of what I am saying.” – Oscar Wilde

“I’m such a good lover because I practice a lot on my own.” – Woody Allen

“Never accept a drink from a urologist.” – Erma Bombeck

“New York’s such a wonderful city. Although I was at the library today. The guys are very rude. I said, “I’d like a card.” He says, “You have to prove you’re a citizen of New York.” So I stabbed him.” – Emo Philips


“Never let go of that fiery sadness called desire.” – Patti Smith

“It’s easy to cry when you realize that everyone you love will reject you or die.” – Chuck Palahniuk

“He who is not just is severe, he who is not wise is sad.” – Voltaire

“In deep sadness there is no place for sentimentality.” – William S. Burroughs

“One cannot be deeply responsive to the world without being saddened very often.” – Erich Fromm

“A feeling of sadness and longing that is not akin to pain, and resembles sorrow only as the mist resembles the rain.” – Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

“When sadness comes, just sit by the side and look at it and say, “I am the watcher, I am not sadness,” and see the difference. Immediately you have cut the very root of sadness. It is no more nourished. It will die of starvation. We feed these emotions by being identified with them.” – Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh

“Sad are only those who understand” – Arab Proverb

“Sadness is but a wall between two gardens.” – Kahlil Gibran

“We live by encouragement and die without it – slowly, sadly, angrily” – Celeste Holm

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Your Questions About Adulthood

Donna asks…

What are the effects of eating lead-based paint in adulthood?

When my husband was a baby, he reportedly ate the lead-based paint off the side of his crib. He’s had numerous unexplained health problems as an adult (chronic fatigue, headaches, diziness). Doctors have not been able to pinpoint the cause of these symptoms despite trying all kinds of medications and therapies. We are now wondering if this exposure to lead in his infant-hood could have long-lasting effects? Are symptoms of lead poisoning or over-exposure present in adulthood?


adultdatingexpert answers:

I suffer from encephalitis (brain virus) which has caused similar symptoms to what you describe, ie fatigue, headaches & dizziness. What usually brings this on (does this trigger your husbands episodes also?) is anything which causes fear or panic or uncertainty in a potentially hazardous situation (eg crossing a road and worrying about being hit by a car).

(I should add that I’m closeish to recovered now, so I’m writing this while feeling largely sound of mind).

When I was in the chronic phases of this condition, I’d get a symptom called, ‘presyncopal lightheadedness’ (or something similarly named – the doctors weren’t sure and told me it may be a central nervous system-related issue, if those aren’t the same things, I’m not sure) – and got that an average 3x/day for about 3 years, then 2x/day for one year, once/day for the next and now anything which happens is largely able to be ignored (though it is depressing).

I believe this issue possibly has something to do with blood circulation to the brain, which explains why nervous moments have exascerbated it.

NO doctor I ever met (and I’ve met many) has been able to say with any certainty how to resolve this problem (however),

I was once told that the body can ‘adapt’ to tolerating it and the mind fooled into thinking there’s no problem (which I hated hearing because it wasn’t “it’ll be all fine”, but it was better than the opposite).

What I’ve since learned is the following,
* Being more fit helps (ie exercising seems to help the body to learn to cope better)
* Paying more attention to breathing, when an attack may happen, seems to help also (eg I find stopping then exhaling more noticeably as I step off the side of a road to cross seems to help)
* Doing whatever you can to raise your self confidence (the first point).

If your husband had a trigger like the lead causing his symptom to occur, then I have no idea if any of this will help (and apologize if it doesn’t) but it sounds similar to what I’ve experienced.

Has he had a CT scan?

Maria asks…

How many humans years does it take for a puppy to grow into adulthood?

How old in dog years will the dog be by then? (as in humans turn into adulthood by 18yrs. how about a dog?)

adultdatingexpert answers:

Most dogs are adults at a year old. There is no such thing as “dog years”. A year is the time it takes for a planet to orbit the sun. Its the same for everything on that planet.

Charles asks…

What movies are there similiar to adulthood?

Movies such as Adulthood, Kidulthood . . . .

adultdatingexpert answers:

Boyz n the Hood
Dangerous Minds
Basketball Diaries
This Is England
Made In Britain
Menace II Society.

James asks…

Is high school like the rite of passage into adulthood?

I believe that it is. So many people hate high school, with all the drama, and useless repetitive classes, I think going to ‘Insanity’ everyday is like the 4 year passage into adulthood. Would you agree or disagree?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Like, uh, no. Like,adulthood is like age 21, so your math is off by like about 3 years.
Like. In some cases, people never grow up, but are tall children.
High school is like what you do to kill time while you are useless to work at Walmart. It is “insanity” because the person in HS is childish, selfish, shallow, undisciplined and lazy.
Some people in high school are top performers and get a lot of fun and achievement out of the time they have to put in. They think long-term. They run clubs, work overtime at homework, see their name in the paper for volunteering or being in a play, not for speeding or drug use or stabbing someone. They run their lives well.
There are really fortunate and appreciative kids who were raised to be acheivers and leaders and they will do well in whatever spot they find themselves in. The rest have to struggle and try to make excuses, whining and blaming other people for their failures. Some eventually grow up.
Some schools are awful. Maybe you are at an awful one. Maybe you should take action to improve your school. Find out.
The day you forgive your parents for the way they raised you (the mistakes they made and all) and accept responsibility for you own life and choices, that day, you are an adult.
Prior to that day, things happen that build toward that day, and they are your passages:
Learning to drive well, Staying sober for Prom, Graduating high school, getting your first job, opening a bank account, working late because you care, losing your virginity with your sweetheart, starting college in a strange town, breaking up with your first love, flying somewhere by yourself, helping your neighbor hang Christmas lights because she is old and shouldn’t be on a ladder, feeding homeless people because somebody should do it and YOU are somebody, adopting your first pet by yourself, dating someone you didn’t think you could get.
All passages that, done well, teach you how to be grown up. Done badly, shows you you need more practice. Hopefully, you live through the learning process.

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