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Your Questions About Sex Offender Registry

Mark asks…

what is the point of registering sex offenders?

1. if they are dangerous why are they out
2. if a registered offender attacks again there is substantial data indicating that they do not attack after registering in their own zip codes
3, its double jeopardy
4. if a person is truly reformed t¡registering in a public forum makes their recovery harder
5. shouldn’t the police be making the decisions and taking actions instead of a public registry

adultdatingexpert answers:

The sex offender registry is big business. Not only does it cost the taxpayer over $600,000,000 per year but there are many websites, apps and GPS organization making a fortune. Not to mention the money it brings to the prison industry and mental health organizations who offer and provide the sex offender classes and rehabilitation programs.

There are also the civil commitment hospitals which charge the states up to $250,000 per year per “guest.” Law enforcement organizations and recently, private organizations have been getting huge grants to monitor the growing sex offender base.

Newspapers and TV shows such as Inside Edition, CSI, America’s Most Wanted, they all make hundreds of millions in revenue. Politicians use the topic to win elections.

Lastly, the registry is the template for future registries which have already been proposed in many states: HIV registry, Gun, Domestic Abuse, Animal Abuse, DWI, Mental Health, Arson, Burglary.

Registries don’t work. We already know this because of what we did to the jews and witches.

Lisa asks…

sex offenders???

why do sex offenders have to be put on a “list” and be labelled forever as sex offenders, when people who’ve killed, and let out after like 20 years or rapists whove been let out in long time don’t have this heaving labelling? or for people who’ve shop lifted many times, why no labeling?

im not saying this is unfair but why don’t the rest have this labeling as well?
i heard sex offender‘s car license plates will have florescent colors/frames around them

adultdatingexpert answers:

A disproportionately large number of sex offenders re-offend. This is due to the fact that the motivation for their crimes stems from a mental condition that is currently incurable. The purpose of the sex offender registry is simply to let parents know that there are sex offenders in their area and provide them with a measure of caution. If you know that the kind looking older man in Apartment 2B is a convicted sex offender, you will have some warning not to let him babysit should he offer.

Nancy asks…

they have a sex offender registry. but do they have a?

beastialilty registry.

sorry if i misspelled. i just want to make sure i live in a safe neighborhood. and a safe neighborhood if i move. thanks(:

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sex offender registry is pretty meaningless since they have started including things like public urination and second graders how pinched someones butt. You actually would need a separate bestiality registry to determine if they really are a sicko or simply a child or homeless person.

Sandy asks…

Are reform laws necessary for sex offender registries?

A Canadian man travelled to Maine to murder two people on a public registry. A man who ma$turbated in the same room as his sleeping infant is required to register for life. Do these laws dispense justice and look out for public safety equally, or is there need for change? What’s your opinion?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Yes, reform laws are necessary. In the first place, the original intent of Megans Law was to register the Sexually Violent Predators. This was a list to be kept by Law Enforcement. The states receive grant money for the number of offenders on the registry. Therefore, the states started making more and more things sex offenses. Things that have absolutely NOTHING to do with sex. As a matter of fact, in Florida, they are getting paid for deceased, deported, people that live in other states and just visited FL. If you took all of the ones off of the Florida registry that didn’t belong there, it would cut their registry in half! Then if you took the other nonsense off and left only the Sexually Violent Predators, the 36,000 + that they have on their now would be around 2,000.

These registries are nothing but feel good legislation. The politicians use this hysteria to garner more votes. The registries are also giving parents a false sense of security. 90 to 95% of sexual offenses occur by someone known to the child. Not by the predator ready to jump from behind the tree.

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Your Questions About Adult Children Of Alcoholics

John asks…

How do you identify alcoholics, drug dealers, and abusers?

Well, my parents are getting divorced, and I have a feeling my mom might start dating again. I just want to be sure she is safe, because she kinda tends to not see things like that. How can you identify people (men) who are alcoholics, drug dealers, abusers, or any other bad things? How would I protect my mom?
Thanks Justin…. =)

adultdatingexpert answers:

Your mom gave you birth, so I assume she is older than you. In other words, she is an adult and should be able to recognize these things if her child can.

But, that isn’t to say I don’t understand you — I COMPLETELY feel you because I dealt with the same issue with my own mother, and she refused to listen to me… I tried every approach: easy, tough, quiet, loud, etc… She just didn’t listen.

I learned something though: tell her something to the tune of “Hey, Mom, I love you and because of that, I just want to let you know I think this man might be bad for you. It seems to me he may have a problem with (whatever) and I just don’t want to see you get dragged down by it.”

Even Jesus said it’s up to the person receiving the message to take action, so you have done your part.

Don’t waste your youth in trying to protect her when she won’t listen to you.

Good luck!!! I’ll keep you and your mom in my thoughts and prayers.

David asks…

How does having alcholoic parents during childhood affect a person as a teenager?

When I was a child, both my parents were alcholics, both got sober eventually, but since middle school I have had major emotional problems. I was wondering if my problems have stemmed from my childhood.

adultdatingexpert answers:

From talking to many adult children of alcoholic parents and reading numerous books on this subject, it seems that there are no clear-cut answers. Then again, psychology is the study of the individual and not /everyone/.

Like any parents with mental illness, alcoholics may have extreme emotional responses that may confuse a child. This may lead a child to be confused about his or her identity and sense of right and wrong well into adulthood. They may seek, unconsciously, to get into abusive relationships to try to “save” the mother or father in their mind. This is all speculation, of course, but it’s something to think about.

I think you’ll be all right, if you want my professional opinion. It’s not a death sentence, and even if they were abusive to you (which is not your fault in any way, of course), there are always ways around it. I completely agree with the comment that mentions that no one else’s actions should dominate your own: you are your own person mentally, biologically, and spiritually.

You have the right to live a good life.

William asks…

How would you support a child/young person who has experienced traumatic expericences.?

This a question I was given in relation to the child Act. working with children as a social worker, if I child opens up to you and tells you that they saw their mother and father beheaded, how would you support the child.

adultdatingexpert answers:

I would try to get them to open up and talk to me about it with out them being afraid to tell me. Ask them how would they feel about talking to someone who has expertise in severe post traumatic cases in that area that could help them get through this experience.

I would also explain to them that it is nothing that they did wrong, things just happen to good people and it happens all the time. Some people are just sick and let them know it is not them so they would definatey not feel guily in any way that maybe that had brought this on or maybe feel responsible for what happened like a lot of victims feel or are led to believe.

That bad things happen to good people and we do not always know why and may never know why. But there is help to get us through the tough times and the anger that we feel inside for the innocence that was taken from us and that we can and will go on and lead normal lives again and leave that pain behind. It just takes time to heal those wounds. Also let them know that there are good people out there and not all are bad and that you can learn to trust again it will take time though and they will learn who to trust again. Somethings in life are beyond our control and that is unjust righthy so, but if you go around angry, it will eat you up inside and that person that did that to you is not worth the time or energy of what they did. They are sick and need help, so why would waste precious time on someone who needs help when you know that you can become a whole person again and move on and learn to forgive that person for they are sick and pity them, for they may never be happy and be free of those bonds that you will be and that is sad and a waste of a life. That person however that got hurt will go on, and live a fuller and wiser life. And those that go through trauma and things in life grow into strong adults and better people and maybe can help someone else that hurts in the same way and tell them their experience of what happened to them and what they did to overcome their fear, anger and resentment to become a whole person again and get on with life and learn to enjoy and truly value oneself and appreciate life like never before for what they have been through that no one else has ever been through that makes them unique in many ways, and so precious. Sometimes these things are blessing in disguise if we truly let ourselves see them as such. I am a recovering alcoholic and was so angry at first, but you know, it truly was a blessing in disguise, I appreciate every moment of my life because it makes it that more precious, I know this does not compare at all to the trauma of what this person has been through and it must be a nightmare over and over, I have a cousin that was murdered by her own husband and then her triplets burned by him and then he got away with it and got custody. But he never was happy and God got him . I feel I was chosen, so I would see the world diferently and I am special in many different ways due to the castrophies that I went through and my life was spared while many others were not.

Look At O.J., I truly believe that God let him go so that he would be out and live that turmoil over and over day after day and be reminded of what he had done. Going to jail would have been to easy for him. So he got the best sentence he could have gotten. Living in ridicule day after day. Every one gets theres we just always know it or we are not there to see it but it does happen rest assured. Anyone who would do such an act to someone is truly and had to be tortutured im some way as a child or some sort of real pain as a child, and that is very unfortunate that someone had to pay for their sickness. But their day will come, and to put someone else in the horrible situation, they will recover and something will come to them that they never imagined would ever happen or that they never thought would come from it, God does not allow things to happen that horrific without rewarding some other way. There is no way you could go through that without some other way of coming out ahead and tremendously ahead in the future in miraculous ways. This person will definately benefit in many ways that they never though possible and get rewards they never thought would come from this but it will happen in due time I guarantee it as if I could bet money on it.

Life will go one and I hope the best for this person, my hear goes out to them, what a horrific ordeal I cannot imagine. The person that did this definately needs to pay for what they did two fold. I will pray for them to heal and become whole again and that God touches their lifes and bring true joy from this horrific situation and turns it around for the best and brings joy to their hearts. No one should ever go through this in life and is so unjust, I am baffled by mankind and it is so sad. Imagine what this person went through as a child to do such a horrible crime to someone. That is sad but does not fix what happended to someone else for their sickness, they had a choice for help. But their agony I an sure far outways this other persons grief. For they are truly in bondage forever.
Again my love to this person and my prayers for them for recovery and deepest sympathy for this time in their lives..

This is one of those things that makes you realize that your life is not as bad as you think and realze it is great.

My condolences to the family or the perso sincerely and deeply,

Sandra asks…

How does it affect children when parents leave their lives ?

When someone is young, and their parent decides to leave and not be apart of the child’s life for years, how does that affect the child throughout their life? In their adult years?

Also, If the parent comes back into their life, only to leave again.

adultdatingexpert answers:

My mom would leave constantly, and only come back when she ran out of money. She left for drugs and men. Often, she wouldn’t even tell us bye. We’d come home, and she’d just be gone. Sometimes she’d be gone for a few days and other times she was gone for a couple of years. She never made any attempt to contact us, although my dad took her back every time.

I often wish she would’ve just stayed gone. We couldn’t get happy when she came back, because no matter what she said, we knew she’d leave again. My dad was always in a horrible mood for the first few weeks after she left and did nothing but drink, eventually he became an alcoholic.

It made me more independent. I moved out at 15 and did well off on my own. In the beginning I was very depressed and couldn’t understand. I kept that small bit of hope that maybe she’d change, but she never did. Eventually I gave up on her. And my father as well, his drinking got worse and worse. I’m the only girl and he constantly told me how much I reminded him of my mom. Because of that, we didn’t get along well. After that I also found out he wasn’t my biological dad, I think that had a bit to do with his hatred towards me.

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Your Questions About Sexy And I Know It

James asks…

How would I take a sexy pic without being slutty?

My boyfriend has been begging me for a sexy picture. I can take cute ones but he wants sexy and I haven’t got the idea of a sexy picture.

adultdatingexpert answers:

You *really* want to avoid looking slutty in a boyfriend photo, even if you reduce the sexy quality. Imagine how you would feel for that photo being circulated around to friends, family and even strangers. Boyfriends do that sometimes after their ardor cools. Just do something you would not mind lots of others seeing.

What about in a bathing suit? In your underwear outdoors, if that doesn’t strike you as too risque. Underwear and bathing suits really aren’t extremely revealing. A whole lot depends on how you feel about nudity and others seeing your body.

Carol asks…

What’s the difference between handsome and sexy?

I‘ve been called both recently by women and wonder what would make a guy sexy or handsome.

I think it goes something like this
Handsome= facial features
Sexy= aura, body language, physique, etc

Help me out ladies pretty please with vanilla on top.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Handsome and sexy are different – both together is very rare! Handsome, as you say, is about facial features. But sexy is about personality, it comes from inside, the way you hold yourself, your confidence, the way you speak etc…

You can be sexy without being handsome, but vice versa is a turn off and won’t get you by for long, if you’re both you’re a REAL catch!!

Paul asks…

How to get those sexy flat victoria secret model abs?

How in the world do those model’s get those sexy flat abs, with all their curves still intact? I am just wondering do they spent hours and hours in the gym, starve themselves? How long does it take them to accomplish tose abs?

adultdatingexpert answers:

I am just a guy so i don’t know about the victoria secret abs and all but i do a ab work out everyday which has gotten me a six pack so if you want to look sexy with rock hard abs heres a good work out you could do. Do this once everyday and it only takes about 15 minutes. Start with around 30-50 crunches then do 30-50 bicycles, then do v-sits of about 30-50 i usually do 50 to get a good burn, then obliques 20 each side look it up if you aren’t sure what it is, and then do 6-inches leg drops of about 20 and that is where you lay on your back and raise you feet 6 inches off the ground and the fly your legs up to the ceiling and the back down ( those really put on the burn), and finally end it with 30 second planks. Wow it is alot to right down but although it seems like a lot of excercises it takes no time at all. Hav Fun!!

Mandy asks…

What are some sexy items to put in the bedroom and bathroom?

I want to give both my new bedroom and bathroom a sexy and relaxing feel to them.
for example candles and dim lighting. but what other items can I add? Please be respectful.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Certain colors can give a “sexier” feel. So if painting is an option that is something you could do. Possibly a curtain (silk or velvet) or something that goes around the bed. Drawing attention to the bed first thing when you walk into the bedroom.. Maybe some sensual art. Or a piece of art that implies sexy thoughts.

Hope I helped a little. Have a wonderful day!! :)

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Your Questions About Adults

Susan asks…

What does it mean adult age +2?

Me and my grandma are going to California but I don’t know what adult age +2

adultdatingexpert answers:

Adult Age +2 refers to an adult or anybody who is over the age of two. This is commonly seen when booking airline tickets as anyone over two years requires their own seat, therefore they will be charged the full adult price. Safe travels.

Michael asks…

yahoo adult chat rooms missing ,why?

married but looking room,adult webcam

adultdatingexpert answers:

Yahoo seems to have removed them from the new versions and many people have lost them as well. People in the UK were always blocked from them in their version so here is a work-around they found. Bascially the rooms are all listed in a file in yahoo messenger cache and you just carefully add them back..

OK, here’s a workaround. You *can* have access to the adult rooms, the problem is that they do not show up in the list of rooms when you click on the chat button. The solution is easy. The first time that yahoo starts it downloads a list of the available rooms – and filters these according to your location. When the rooms list opens it uses this downloaded list. To get the adult rooms back just close down messenger and edit this list.

Go to program filesyahoo!messengercache

now use notepad to open a file that has chatCategories in its name. Scroll down to this line:

after it add the following:

save the file and start messenger.

Maria asks…

DO YOU CONSIDER 16 YR OLDS ADULTS?!?

WHY OR WHY NOT? Do you think they should be in adult prison when for instance they rob a store?..how about treated like adults? I mean 16 yr olds are NOT five, they are full grown and look like adults!!

adultdatingexpert answers:

No, adults can think better and 16 year olds can think, but not as in depth like adult. So I would say no.I’m 16 :)

Carol asks…

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Does anyone know where I can get an adults onesie pattern?

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Your Questions About Sex Pistols

Linda asks…

What bands did punk rock originate from?

I listen to punk. I am punk. But I really don’t know from who punk was influenced. I’d like to know who influenced the early punk bands like the Ramones, Sex Pistols, Clash, etc. Any suggestions would be awesome

adultdatingexpert answers:

The boys in the Ramones became friends solely because of their shared interest in the Stooges. They didn’t have a lot else in common. You can confirm this yourself by watching the Ramones “End of the Century” dvd.

However their music, once they got a band going, was influenced by a lot more than the Stooges. You can hear the influence of the 60′s garage bands, early British invasion, and surf music (I don’t mean the Beach Boys, I mean the Ventures and Dick Dale). The Ramones are what you’d get if British Invasion and Surf got married and produced a very strange, angry child—he may be different from his parents, but he got all his DNA from them, and it shows. I could always hear the Dave Clark Five in the Ramones. And anyone who can listen to “Judy is a Punk” without hearing Herman’s Hermits’ “Henry the Eighth” isn’t listening very hard. Joey also liked a lot of Phil Spector-produced songs from the early 60s.

Did you know that the last song the Ramones ever performed was the Dave Clark Five’s “Any Way You Want It”? They never recorded that song, but they obviously loved it.

The Sex Pistols and the Clash were both influenced by the Ramones. Joe Strummer talks about that in the “end of the Century” dvd.

Jenny asks…

What is the most overproduced album in rock and roll history?

A. Boston/ Boston
B. Guns and Roses Use your Illusion 1,2
c. The Sex Pistols Never MInd the Bollocks.
D. Styx, Kilroy was HERE.

adultdatingexpert answers:

William Hung – ‘Inspiration’
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inspiration_%28William_Hung_album%29

William asks…

What is the unltimate punk rock song to you?

I really like “God save the queen” by the sex pistols but I more modern song what have to be “dance dance”by Fallout boy they used to be punk rockish.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Anything by simple plan

Helen asks…

What are some good punk bands with female singers?

I mean real punk bands that would instrumentally be comparable to the likes of The Sex Pistols, The Damned, The Ramones, The Misfits, The Casualties, etc not sucky bands like Paramore or whatever. I know of The Slits and The Runaways, but what other punk bands are there with female leads?

adultdatingexpert answers:

The Slits were an amazing band. It’s a shame more people aren’t aware of them.

Sleater-Kinney
The Soviettes
Lemuria
Discount
The Rezillos
Screaming Females
Bikini Kill
Selby Tigers
Cheeky
Pylon
Defiance, Ohio
Little Lungs
P.S. Eliot
Le Tigre
X
Lost Sounds
The Okmoniks
Team Dresch
Au Pairs
Punch

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Your Questions About Adult Swim Shows

John asks…

Adult swim show help?

What show took place in space? It had a girl with 3 boobs and aliens. More of a blob alien I think. It was animated

adultdatingexpert answers:

Try Wikipedia and you’ll see all the shows that has ever aired on adult swim.

Http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Adult_Swim_programs

Steven asks…

Does anyone think Adult Swim needs to change their show list?

Don’t say mean things if you actually like the shows! I’m not trying to bash anyone or anything.

I just think Adult Swim has been icky lately…

Yes I know I don’t have to watch it, but they used to have good shows.
I agree with all of you! Yeah the anime is on pretty late, Inuyasha is overdone, and Tim and Eric suck… along with all those British comedy things… They should show more Sealab and stuff.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Yeah, I know.

Their new shows can’t compare to the classics like Aqua Teen Hungerforce, Space Ghost, Sealab 2021 etc.

They should take out some of the new shows they have that serve no real purpose, like the “Tim&Eric Awesome Show” for example.

And speaking in termas of Anime, they definitly need to make over thier line up and broadcast anime weekly, instaed of just on Staurdays at 1am-5am.

Michael asks…

Was Spongebob on Adult swim?

My brother told me spongebob was on adult swim.I think it was for a few reasons.
1.Some episodes have blood
2.Spongbob and Patrick act gay(sometimes)
3.It shows Spongebob’s and Patrick’s butt

adultdatingexpert answers:

I’ve never seen it on Adult Swim. I would say that would be a travesty for that show to appear on Adult Swim, but considering how they have managed to ruin Adult Swim with crap like The Mighty Boosh, Tim and Erik’s stupid ass show and other dumb ass non-cartoon shows, it wouldn’t be completely unimaginable.

Adult Swim has went down hill since the cancelation of Frisky Dingo and Lucy Daughter of the Devil. The only show really worth watching now is Squidbilllies and Robot Chicken.

Sponge Bob just seems so completely retarded like a dumbed down stupid childish version of Ren and Stimpy.

Charles asks…

Looking for an Adult Swim Show. ?

There was boy, a crazy, perverted old man who also had like an alternative version of himself, I’m thinking with an afro that was rainbow colored maybe? There was a fanservice girl the old man was obsessed with. She was stereo-typed naive sexy with killer body.

Umm…I’m thinking there was an episode with someone’s house or someone being eaten by bears. I remember blood an bears.
Fan service girl usually had on a skimpy school uniform from what I recall.
I think it was pretty random, but it did have some sort of a plot.

If anyone has a name I would love to know! I’d like to see it again. I was trying to explain the show to my boyfriend and he had no clue.

adultdatingexpert answers:

I am not really sure but here is a list of all Adult Swim episodes that have been released.
It sounds familiar but i can not think of it at the moment. Good luck finding it.

Http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Adult_Swim_programs

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Your Questions About Sexual Harassment

Linda asks…

Is this considered sexual harassment – please advise.?

I am feeling very crappy today because of some incident’s that have happened at work lately. I work in a respectable work environment with respectable people. The problem I have had is with the gate guard that works here. We are supposed to slow down when we cross the guard so he can log us in. The guard has been around for the past year or so and he used to pass comments on my looks occasionally….and I just ignored them thinking that he probably says this kind of stuff to everyone. Yesterday I think he crossed the limits… he stopped me and asked me if he annoys me because there is a very thin line between sexual harassment and normal talk and he told me that the I am very beautiful and the only reason he comes to work is to see me and my lovely smile. In the past he has passed casual remarks about my looks… which I completely ignored…. and now I feel I should have taken some action then and told him not to bother me again by stopping me. I am a respectable women with a loving husband and a beautiful 20 month old son and I don’t need this kind of stuff from anyone. Is this considered sexual harassment? Should I report to management and make a big deal out of it… or deal with the situation myself and tell the guard to mind his own business and not to stop or I will complain. The incident makes me feel very uncomfortable going to and from work.
Thanks all for the answers! I will give him a warning and if that does not work. I will report him to management.

adultdatingexpert answers:

The EEOC defines sexual harassment as: “Unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature constitute sexual harassment when this conduct explicitly or implicitly affects an individual’s employment, unreasonably interferes with an individual’s work performance, or creates an intimidating, hostile, or offensive work environment.”

Since this attention is unwelcome, and it is contributing to a hostile work environment, it does fall under this definition. He may not mean anything by it, but if you have been made uncomfortable it is not your fault or problem. Sometimes a person means to be complimentary and just comes off as creepy.

In general the first advisable thing to do is to first tell the guard directly that he has made you uncomfortable, and ask him to stop. You don’t have to be confrontational, but you do want to make your meaning clear.

HOWEVER, if you feel in any way concerned or fearful of his reaction, go to your manager or human resources department immediately for assistance.

David asks…

Is this considered Sexual Harassment?

I need a second opinion about some things my boss says to me. At work we are all very silly with each other. It’s more like a whole bunch of friends working together. But for the last few months my boss has been saying some things im not sure would fall under sexual harassment.

example 1:
“You have a few things going bad for you. Your a hard worker and your attractive.”

example 2:

We were working on a project together and we ran out of something we needed so I told him, he didn’t believe me so he went and looked himself; couldn’t find it either. About 3 minutes later he says “Oh I thought you were trying to get me upstairs alone.”

example 3:
We were walking down the stairs of the stockroom and he fixes my collar. I say “Why’d you do that?” He says “Your collar was messed up. Naaaw, I wanted to touch you.”

Is this sexual harassment????
:)

adultdatingexpert answers:

Is this considered Sexual Harassment?
NO

this is why
“At work we are all very silly with each other. It’s more like a whole bunch of friends working together”
and
the law does not prohibit simple teasing, offhand comments, or isolated incidents that are not very serious, harassment is illegal when it is so frequent or severe that it creates a hostile or offensive work environment or when it results in an adverse employment decision (such as the victim being fired or demoted).

Http://www.eeoc.gov/laws/types/sexual_harassment.cfm

could the lack of professionalism in the office lead to sexual harassment?
YES
should this manager be more aware of the possibility of being misunderstood?
YES
should the office dynamics be changed to make you feel more comfortable?
YES
if that happens will your coworkers blame you?
Most likely…..

Thomas asks…

Sexual harassment at school?

What would happen if i reported someone for sexual harassment at school. I mean what would the school or principle or w/e do?
Its a student. Under 18.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sexual harassment at school is against federal law. A school is also required to adopt and publish grievance procedures for resolving sex discrimination complaints, including complaints of sexual harassment. This provides an effective means for promptly and appropriately responding to sexual harassment complaints. What will happen is up to the policy of your school, but it will be addressed and dealt with. Schools don’t want to be in violation of federal laws. They lose funding that way.

You must report this to a school official.

Paul asks…

Is this sexual harassment or not?

My new boss flirts with me a lot and I had thought it was innocent. It was just the occasional “You look great today” type of thing and he has also asked me to lunch a few times which is also innocent since people go to work with their co-workers all of the time. But one day he told me I should wear more low cut blouses because he would appreciate it more. Then the other day he asked me if I wanted to go out with him and I told him no because I was engaged and he claimed that I led him on by letting him take me to lunch. And then he asked me in a joking way if I was willing to have one last fling with him but I didn’t think it was funny though even though he said he was just kidding. Does that count as sexual harassment? If it does what can I do about it? It’s mainly going to be my word against his and he’s been working for them for years whereas I just started a couple of months ago. I’ve heard rumors about women in the past and how that was why he could never keep an assistant but I don’t want to just quit though if he is in fact harassing me.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Sexual Harassment is any comment, touch, picture, or situation in general that is sexually related and makes you uncomfortable. So if you are uncomfortable then yes it is sexual harassment. Your first course of action is to tell him to stop, if the behavior continues then you need to go to your HR department and make a formal complaint. You need to tell them the exact situations and what was said. You also need to tell them that you asked him to stop. Your HR department has a legal responsibility to confront your boss and inform him that his behavior is unacceptable and that it must end.
If the behavior continues you must continue to inform HR each and every time he does something. If no action is taken against your boss and the behavior continues then you have a potential lawsuit. Although, you have to give the employer time to rectify the situation before you can file any sort of suit.
At that point you have three choices. First, you can either quit and file for unemployment and contact an attorney. Second, you can stay employed and file a suit, but I am sure the employer would make it a living hell to work there. Third, you do nothing and just put up with the situation.
Good luck to you.

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Your Questions About Adult Halloween Costume

Lisa asks…

Girl and her dog halloween costume ideas?

I have a Goldendoodle and I am a teenager and I want to do a halloween costume with my puppy. Does anyone have any ideas that we can dress up as together? Thanks so much!

adultdatingexpert answers:

U:http://www.buycostumes.com/Corrupt-Cop-Adult/20901/ProductDetail.aspx
ur dog:http://www.buycostumes.com/Prisoner-Dog-Pet-Costume/6897/ProductDetail.aspx

u:http://www.buycostumes.com/Garden-Ho-Sexy-Adult-Costume/31251/ProductDetail.aspx
ur dog: http://www.buycostumes.com/Pet-Costume-Daisy-Dog/12760/ProductDetail.aspx

u can mix and match all of these:
u:http://www.buycostumes.com/Sexy-Santa-Adult/20526/ProductDetail.aspx
ur dog:http://www.buycostumes.com/Santa-Claus-Pet-Costume/34593/ProductDetail.aspx
u:http://www.buycostumes.com/The-Holiday-Hottie-Adult/20939/ProductDetail.aspx
ur dog:http://www.buycostumes.com/Elf-Pet-Costume/34592/ProductDetail.aspx

or you could pick out an outfit u like
and then get a matching costume for ur dog from here:

http://www.buycostumes.com/browse/Classic/Pet-Costumes/_/N-1z141w7Z3o/results1.aspx

HOPE I HELPED! =D

Nancy asks…

How do you host a Halloween party on a tight budget?

I am wanting to host an adult Halloween party without breaking the bank. What are some suggestions for decorations, food, etc.? What do you even do at an adult Halloween party? Sadly, I don’t think I have been to an actual party but I do love Halloween and love entertaining so I need some really good, inexpensive ideas!

adultdatingexpert answers:

We have a block adult Halloween party every year with an outdoor fire place, pot luck, and costume contest. Scary sound effects music for background. And lots of outdoor scary music. Bring your own beverage. See website below for ideas.

Michael asks…

Does anyone have any ideas for a homemade Halloween costume for an adult?

I want to make a homemade Halloween costume this year. Does anyone have any ideas? THanks

adultdatingexpert answers:

Take a box big enough to cut a hole in the top for your head and holes in the sides to stick your arms out. Cover it with either birthday or Christmas wrapping paper and stick a bow on your head (or in your hair if you’re a girl) to be a gift.

Wear all brown and attach purple balloons with safety pins (by the ties) to yourself to be a bunch of grapes. Some ideas anyway, have fun!

Laura asks…

What would you say to people who think that halloween is designed for kids only?

Sure, i see people of all ages (kids, teens, and adults) celebrate halloween and wear costumes and have fun.

But what do you think of others who say that “halloween is designed for kids only”

adultdatingexpert answers:

:O you guys shock me!
Halloween started off with adults,
then kids.

I think you guys are just showing off that you are SO grown up!
HALLOWEEN SHOULD BE SHARED FOR EVERYONE TO ENJOY!!!

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Your Questions About Sex And The City 2

Betty asks…

Does ‘Sex And The City 2′ have any nudity in it?

Niece wants to go and see it and just wondering if it contains any nude scenes like those that were present in the first movie. So infomation on either male/female would be useful.

Thank You

adultdatingexpert answers:

SEX and the City… What do you think?

James asks…

online streaming movies sex and the city 2?

anyone know where to find this?

adultdatingexpert answers:

The critics proclaimed SEX IN THE CITY MOVIE was boring

Lisa asks…

appropriatness of sex and the city 2?

I’m trying to decide whether or not to let my 16 year old sister see sex and the city 2. what are the innappopriate parts? is there any thing as bad as the first one like when you see the guy’s thing? thanks!

adultdatingexpert answers:

Your sister has already seen a penis, I’m sure (‘thing’? What are you, 16?). There are reasons much better than the human body to let sex and the city pass your sister by.

Joseph asks…

Who has seen Sex and The City 2?

Have you seen it and what did you think?
Or are you planning on watching it?

adultdatingexpert answers:

I am a HUGE fan of Sex and the City and was so excited to see this movie. I had been looking forward to it since i heard it was in production. I had heard bad reviews but was trying to ignore them because I really wanted to like it….I unfortunately HATED it! The plot was just awful. There was never a point in the movie where I just had to find out what was going to happen next. Wait until it comes out on DVD that way you can stop it if you want to and not pay $10 to see it in the theater!

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Your Questions About Adult Add

David asks…

How do I keep my mind on studying?

My mind wonders and I am having a hard time concentrating. I think I may have a little bit of Adult ADD. I have anxiety and depression. I do not know if these are contributing factors.

This is an important test which can change my life but for some reason I am having trouble concentrating.

Any suggestions or advice would be great.

Thanks.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Anxiety and/or depression often co-exist with ADD. Being anxious or depressed will hinder concentration even without ADD, but they often are also demonstrated due to what ADD really is.
Why not talk to a dr about it?

Carol asks…

I am horrible at time management! What are some good ways to focus and keep on task?

I’m terrible, always forgetting things and procrastinating! What are some good tricks to stay organized and focused? I am really starting to wonder if I have Adult ADD.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Managing your time and using it wisely is a journey, and not something that can be easily mastered overnight. Implementing a plan will help, but it is not going to be a sure cure. Time management requires a significant amount of self-discipline.

This article contains some great no-nonsense tips for increasing your productivity and effectively managing your time:
http://www.small-business-software.net/time-management.htm

Michael asks…

Is it true Ritalin is chemically similar to cocaine and Adderall is chemically similar to methamphetamine?

I currently take Adderall for ADD (it works well for my symptoms) and am slightly curious/concerned. I used to take Ritalin and it didn’t work as well. I take it for adult ADD (I am 35 years old). Tried Strattera as well, and it was ineffective.

adultdatingexpert answers:

Yes it is chemically similar, but that doesn’t mean you are a meth addict because you take it. I took a similar drug for several years with no negative real negative side effects but switched to a non-stimulant just because I wasn’t a big fan of the idea either. If you are really concerned, you can talk to your doctor about other options. There are some medications for ADD/ADHD that are not stimulants, but like you said, they can possibly be less effective depending on the person taking them. Your best bet would be to do a little research on the topic and then go to your doctor with what you find and have them help you get a better idea of what it all means.

Mary asks…

Is there a way to treat ADD in Adults without Medication?

I have recently been diagnosed with Adult ADD. Is there a way to treat it without drugs?

adultdatingexpert answers:

Alternative solutions for ADD and ADHD including being proactive and taking initiative to find the best possible treatment plan. Be positive. Here are a few tips.

Tips for you as an ADD Adult:

Set aside a few minutes each night to schedule the following day’s events
Organize needed everyday items so you know where things are
Use diaries and notebook organizers
Don’t be too hard on yourself or set unrealistic goals

Activities to Pursue:

While there is no single activity that guarantees teens with ADD instant success, certain types of activities tend to reap more positive results.
Look for activities with a singular focus, such as sports that center attention
Consider activities that involve movement, providing an appropriate and controlled physical outlet
Learn to play a musical instrument
Seek activities that offer individualized instruction
Explore activities that result in tangible rewards

While there is a place for prescription medication in certain cases of ADD, careful consideration should be taken regarding possible side effects and cautions.

There are also alternative solutions for ADD and ADHD available. Making simple changes in diet, sleep, exercise, and routine can help. Even trying more involved approaches like incorporating relaxation therapies such as guided imagery, meditation techniques, or yoga can be beneficial.

There are also many herbal and homeopathic remedies which can help maintain harmony, health, and systemic balance in the brain and nervous system, without side effects or sedation. These products are known for their supportive function in maintaining brain, nervous system and circulatory health, and well-being.

You may get more info here http://www.healthherbsandnutrition.com/remedies/a/add.htm

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